im only a beginner,not ashamed to say.i also love this forum!Im having serious problems in one area of poker.im always getting shoved out of pots that im actually winning!

im playing against 2 other players.countless times a low carded flop comes out and im holding 2 high cards,usually ace with king to jack.but once a bet is shot in im forced to fold because the flop doesn't fit my hand.only to see when the other two turn their cards over,neither of them has hit the flop and a high card wins the pot!

how can i defend against this?help!!