Aahhh, I win with it constantly. I can't even remember the last time I showed down and lost with it. It's AQ. It's a huge hand. However, much like AK it needs help.

People who lose with big hands such as AQ are usually OVERVALUING postflop. You need to be aware of when you're beat and be able to fold "one top pair" type of hands. This is where you lose money to reverse implied odds.

Don't allow the black hole known as reverse implied odds to drain you. You take a big hand as far as it will take you and at the exact point that it's beat you drop it like it's hot.

You sound like you need a marriage counselor