Missed draw reading 101.

lol im the man. The turn is actually setting up a push on most rivers.. but he insta calls the turn.
PokerStars Game #8568955202: Hold'em No Limit ($0.50/$1.00) - 2007/02/22 - 15:03:47 (ET)
Table 'Halleria' 6-max Seat #5 is the button
Seat 1: lonnmar ($179.30 in chips)
Seat 4: I pRaXiS I ($154.05 in chips)
Seat 5: Jakep8nt ($98.50 in chips)
Seat 6: redgrape ($110.40 in chips)
redgrape: posts small blind $0.50
lonnmar: posts big blind $1
*** HOLE CARDS ***
Dealt to redgrape [Ah Js]
I pRaXiS I: folds
Jakep8nt: folds
kipkap joins the table at seat #2
redgrape: raises $3 to $4
lonnmar: calls $3
*** FLOP *** [3c Td 3d]
redgrape: bets $7
lonnmar: calls $7
*** TURN *** [3c Td 3d] [4s]
redgrape: checks
lonnmar: bets $14
perrydiddle joins the table at seat #3
redgrape: raises $14 to $28 (seems kinda donkey, but im setting up a river bluff with my reads most of the time.)
lonnmar: calls $14
*** RIVER *** [3c Td 3d 4s] [5c]
kipkap said, "nic4e"
redgrape: checks
lonnmar: bets $40
kipkap said, "allinn"
redgrape said, "god this looks like a missed flush" WHAT EVER BETS HERE THAT HAS PLAYED THIS WAY SO FAR? (of course this is with my reads)
redgrape: calls $40
*** SHOW DOWN ***
lonnmar: shows [Qd Jd] (a pair of Threes)
redgrape: shows [Ah Js] (a pair of Threes - Ace kicker)
redgrape collected $156 from pot