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Poker pisses you off. If online poker pisses you off specifically, look for the reasons why. Let's start off by acknowledging it isn't rigged; but that doesn't mean it's suitable for everyone.
First of all, it's quick. For people used to live games, it's MUCH quicker, especially if you multitable. You only have 20-30 seconds to make any decision, so it's easy to make the wrong one (in particular because, if the decision is call or fold, and you haven't worked out which is right after 30 secs, the answer is probably fold - it'll save you money in any case, more often than not).
In addition, people playing online tend to eschew taking too long to bet, worried that they're giving away tells. This can be true, but basically, if you don't need to rush, don't rush.
And finally, on this subject, the speed of onlien poker makes bad beats come round far more often. As your brain tends to pick up on these "unfair" instances more than anything else, you notice them more than you notice the wins, so psychologically it can feel like it happens more than it should. I promise you, it doesn't.
Secondly, tells are very different. If you're used to playing live and you have built up an instinctive understandign of how people behave, you'll prbably feel like you're playing blindfolded when you move to online.
Thirdly, multitabling is great, and mostly profitable, but there's no doubt it detracts from some areas of your game. Poor players can simply get overwhelmed; more advanced players will be sacrificing reads (betting patterns etc.) in order to play more hands at a hopefully positive BB/100. But you have to be aware that you are, in all probability, giving up some EV by doing it, and this can turn a slightly winning player into a slightly losing player.
Fourthly, there are a world of distractions when you're playing online, from FTR to messenger to watching the TV to writing a thesis. All of these will have a negative impact on playing.
Fifthly, there will be lots of fish who'd never think of going to a casino but are happy to throw away a few bucks at an online site. Note: this is largely a very good thing, BUT it will also increase the amount of suckouts you suffer. You have to ignore this - if you're a decent player you will make more money on the hands where they play badly and lose than the hands they'll play badly and win.
Sixthly, there's no-one around to keep you in line when you play on your own on a computer. You can be roaring drunk, you can be angry, but you're unaccountable - no-one can tell your anonymous, faceless persona that they're playing like a chump (or if they do, via the chatbox, you'll just get more tilted). This is in combination with the fact that playing online, the lack of tactility - cards in your hand, chips on the table, banknotes in your wallet - takes away from the reality of the situation. It's easier to lose $100 when you're not physicially peeling them off your roll.
Anyway - this was pretty tangential to your problem, but it's all relevant stuff, I think. Poker is all about awareness, of your opponents, of conditions, but most of all about yourself. You need to be on top of your psychological condition at all times - the moment you lose control of your own emotions and actions, even slightly, you are no longer going to be able to play optimal poker.
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