*This
post is not directed strictly at lamaros, this is at anyone who finds themselves getting overly tilted over getting cracked...
What I'
m saying lamaros is that I can't beat myself up over a decision that I would make every time. I'
m a heart-on-my-sleeve type of person and I play sports such as golf and poker where the majority of players are emotionless or very subtle. I choose to stay with my personality and be me, emotional but a fierce competitor in everything I do. What I have learned about this though over years of competition is the way to make it work is to not beat yourself up when you made the right decision at the right time, when you did everything in your power to succeed. I've competed at the national
level in golf and have came just short of winning the NJCAA Div II Men's Golf Championships this past year, (I finished 9th in the nation, my putter went very cold that week). As much as I wanted to win and knew I could contend, I can't
kill myself over not making it when I put myself in the best
position to do so. All those times you get someone to
raise you
all-in preflop when your holding
AA, that's exactly what you want, so
don't get mad when 20% of the time it gets cracked. I've watched friends, who are far worse players than myself (not claiming that I'
m great, I'
m claiming they're bad and have too much ego to realize it) chuck keyboards across the room on beats where they were only 4 to 1 favorites, probably as low as 3 to 1 favorites.
What I'
m getting at is that it's ok to be upset over a tough loss, but it's not ok to get so angry and become irrational, especially in
online poker where you can go find another
fish to pay your bills.
Tilt is a choice.
I have a
tip that I read in an article that Jennifer Harman wrote and its premise was "If your playing
well, keep playing,
don't quit cause your
ahead, maximize this time you're playing
well and at an easy table, but let it go when you no longer have this advantage. If you start off playing poorly and are having an off day, quit,
don't waste more money on bad playing days when you
don't have to. Minimize time playing poorly, maximize time playing
well." And I live by this online. If I start off poorly, I
don't fight it, I choose to step away with what I have left and come
back when I feel like I can play better poker. On nights when I'
m playing
well, I will play until my eyes hurt, maximizing my return on my play. This whole thread started cause I had good weekend, I merely was maximizing a time period I
felt I was playing
well, I played maybe 800 hands or so this weekend and made the most of it, but Sunday when I went to play again, I simply wasn't as focused and lost a hand early on, and got up and walked away. I later played that
home game I talked about higher up in this
post when I
felt I could win again, and I did. I think that's food for thought with
online poker, when you can choose where and what tables you play.
Sorry for the long
post....