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Originally Posted by Chelle
One thing I'm going to say to everyone as maybe some advice or just a word of little wisdom. Don't get so caught up in the bullshit arguments or petty disagreements. When you love someone - communicate, even the tiny things matter, make them smile even when you're sad, and laugh together. Do stupid, silly shit that other people would look at you both like you've lost your minds. But do it, and enjoy it, because it will matter more than you'll think. Doing all that with Justin has gotten me through these shit moments where I don't even know how to breathe. We never went to bed angry, hell we weren't angry at each other pretty much ever. Cuddle, hug, and kiss. Hold hands. Dance. The shit you don't think matters, matters.
Yes Chelle, it will be the little things that you will remember, the quiet moments, the smiles, the laughter, and although it may seem hard right now, it will be the memories of these little things that help to push away the pain and bring the smiles back again.
Extending deepest sympathy, for you in your loss. And hoping, too, that comfort and peace may come to you.
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