Heh, ong is kinda saying what im saying.
I guess my main point is: Let lovers love, but you dont have to like it or be ashamed of not liking it. Just dont stomp on their rights or discriminate against them.
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Heh, ong is kinda saying what im saying.
I guess my main point is: Let lovers love, but you dont have to like it or be ashamed of not liking it. Just dont stomp on their rights or discriminate against them.
I'm just adding another level on top.
Someone who is gay. (a gay dude)
Someone who is not okay with that person being gay. (in this case you)
Someone who is not okay with that person not okay with another person being gay. (in this case me)
Why are you allowed to have a problem with #3 while saying that people aren't allowed to have a problem with #2 because people don't have a problem with #1?
What's a non-silly reason for hating someone, in your view?
But I'm ok with someone being gay. No moral issue. It's my problem, not his. But it still disgusts me.Quote:
Someone who is not okay with that person being gay. (in this case you)
But that's Bill Burr's whole point? The entire bit is calling out this woman on her response. That people shouldn't jump on these kinds of feelings as being bad if he has no ill-will towards gay people at all.Quote:
The only problem I had was when the women confronted him about this
We're throwing around "homophobic asshole" and I guess we have different definitions of it because for me a homophobic asshole is not someone who doesn't want to watch two guys kissing but otherwise doesn't care in the least. A homophobic asshole is someone who, say, tells people they shouldn't be gay or who discriminates against gay people or who beats the shit out of gay people, and you best believe that there are a lot of such homophobic assholes.
@ong then I think I've got zero problems with your stance and, as in the post above, it's just confusion at what qualifies someone as a homophobic asshole.
I'll admit there's an element of trolling to my posts, but that last one pretty much sums up where I am.
I agree with this, so long as the bolded qualifier is true. However I find the bold qualifier to be false (there are cases where gay people are treated differently by homophobic assholes), which means that it sadly at times does need to be a topic of discussion.Quote:
Yes, it should be ignored completely. It shouldnt be an issue or a topic of discussion. So long as gays arent treated differently
I'm really wanting to pour some gasoline on the fire here but have probably done that enough recently.
random question though, what is a tasteful, funny, and non-offensive way to needle a good friend about something he did that was unmanly? that's a serious question actually.
This is somewhat of a strawman. I think people should be allowed to love who they love. Others should be accepting of that, but shouldnt necessarily love the same people nor even like watching such expressions of love. Other others should further be accepting of that, and shouldnt attack this group for having feelings they naturally have which dont amount to discrimination/etc/etc. Further they shouldnt automatically attack others for such involuntary displays of disgust.Quote:
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Id rather not talk about hate honestly. Its a long and very controversial discussion. But for the most part, I dont think there is a non-silly reason to hate someone.
I can see how that might be his point, but thats not how it comes across to me mainly because I see him defending himself and his sexual preferences rather than attacking her for her shortsightedness. HIs discussion is much more about justifying his reaction rather than the stupidity of her attack. In effect, he validates the attack itself through this focus.Quote:
Originally Posted by kiwiMark
It depends on the friend and his style of humor/insecurities.Quote:
Originally Posted by Lukie
Edit: Ive always been a fan of calling them a women through an incredibly sexist response.
This is essentially true but for people usually receiving and reacting to them differently.Quote:
Originally Posted by OngBonga
In broad strokes, a homophobe doesn't think its a prescient value judgement on him where as a homo-o does.
Words are wind, as GURM says. Words are worth less than the air upon which they're breathed. They're a reflection of the speaker, and shouldn't be impact-ful on the listener.
So with your word 'intent' you nailed it. It's the intent of the speaker worth paying attention to.
Hahaha, and Bill Burr is straight up fine in this position. Reacting like ick is just how he does it. He does nothing wrong.Quote:
Originally Posted by NightGizmo
Some people just aren't ready for seeing dudes making out or hearing about transvestites struggling with mundane things.
And eventually those people will all die.
And it takes young people like 15 seconds to become acclimated to something because the whole world is new. "Oh dudes are making out? Cool. I'm gonna go play with some Legos." You think that kid'll grow up to cringe at gay PDA?
Jyms needs to move this to another thread. Nothing random about gays.
Gays are just as random as the rest of us, bigot.Quote:
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chilling at quarter past midnight waiting for the council to send noise officers round, i LOVE living about a fucking garage
A homoQuote:
Originally Posted by kiwiMark
A homophobe
A homophobephobic
Why can't you be homophobephobic
- but not a homophobe
+ but be a homo?
...probably because you're a homphobe? Some people are. It doesn't really mean anything so long as they aren't actively (dicks) to homos.
(I mean ((assholes)) )
((I mean (((cunts))) ))
lessons learntQuote:
Originally Posted by Pascal
1. don't expect the council to bother coming round
2. it's very very hard to even try to sleep when it sounds like your flat is in an earthquake
this is infuriating and i am MAD
and tired
new plan, go out, get drunk, sleep on friends floor. gn lads!
Pascal, Wtf are you talking about? Can't you go down there and kick off?
I'VE GOT GAY FRIENDS BRO STEP OFFQuote:
Originally Posted by a500lbgorilla
(to answer your question though I don't think I said anywhere that you can't, I certainly didn't mean to. I also wasn't trying to make a standalone point with that post but rather just highlight my problem with [my incorrect perception of] ong's stance)
@boog suck a dick
applause for @boog suck a dick
will upload voice memo to try and explain. garage was shut. apparently faulty oil pump ran overnightQuote:
Originally Posted by rong
This is the problem
http://gawker.com/5987561/mississipp...ikely-homicide
Why would who you want to fuck matter to my life?
Time for #stopgayhate?
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look at the thread while not being logged in and you will find your answer.
kat is very soon to be blocked by all major isps in the UK. That shit is fucking annoying.
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Not a good look, Mississippi.Quote:
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That's a good look, New Jersey.
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What if I want to quote you though?Quote:
Originally Posted by givememyleg
This was directed at both you and OngBonga. I was calling him the homophobe he is and letting you know that it all ain't no thang.Quote:
Originally Posted by kiwiMark
But look at you. You're so homophobephobic that you can't even handle being called a homophobe.
And as we all know that the biggest homophobes are themselves closeted homos, I have to wonder about the biggest homophobephobic I've ever seen...
It's ok to be a homophobe, kiwi. It's OK.
Homophobia's a trip. I feel like it a necessary evil even though I have gay friends.
Does this block circumvent VPNs as well? If not, VPN the shit out of kat imoQuote:
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I think that might be an admin power because I still get the (hidden) text when I quote it.
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well i'll be you weren't trolling
I didn't want to have to play my trump card till now, but I'm actually the leader of a small church that prays away homophobia, so there's just no possible way that I could be a homophobe.Quote:
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first 1st of the year (and pretty sure first year in any essay at my home uni) weeeee
multi-accounting, strike 1Quote:
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Oh, I'm very sorry. I didn't realize you were so important to your community. Maybe my son, who struggles with his own need to homobash, could find some guidance with you in your church.Quote:
Originally Posted by kiwiMark
what is going on here.
Hockey makes me think I'd like Soccer.
Dearth should be spelled dirth.
I just had a bottle of Cabernet Sauvignon, also some Rembrandt cheese, wrote a whole lot of incoherent rants in my diary (including this one) and feel pretty moody for someone at home on a Saturday night with neck pain. FML
Tomorrow morning hopefully neck pain will be gone, so I'm off to the gym early in the mornin', completing my first "perfectly fit" week in a while. Hopefully the first of many.
BTW for some reason I'm not drunk at all, just tipsy. Like Sideways. Normally red wine hits me hard, harder than say, Vodka, but now today.
Recommended read: The Power of Habit by some asshole. It's a fucking awesome book if you know you have to get out of shit but just can't and you want to turn your life around.
by Charles Duhigg. Read it a few months ago, awesome book.Quote:
Originally Posted by Jack Sawyer
The internet is being incredible right now.
So they cured aids in kid, that's gotta knock off a couple of percent from some drugs companies share prices.
they'll hire a dude to stitch a third arm to the kid's head, it'll be fine
This world
http://falkvinge.net/2013/03/04/afte...m-north-korea/
Is getting
http://www.dnaindia.com/scitech/repo...tments_1807198
pretty interesting
http://www.ibtimes.co.uk/articles/44...a-kenyatta.htm
I just regrettably bid $600 for two concert tickets.
This has to be Celine DionQuote:
Originally Posted by BennyLaRue
Justin beiber imo
Corey Hart, duh.
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And I was outbid. There are stupider people than me.
ahhh, I remember the days you would have to pay me about $600 to go to a concert. I would do it for a bit less now.
Holy fuck. I weigh 112.1 lbs, with clothes on.
Got braces tightened today, dear god, ow, going to be eating VERY soft foods for the next week. Gonna' make some potato + cheese soup in a bit.
Completely finished the beach painting, probably gonna' start another type of painting soon-ish, maybe.
but omfg I was about +45ish more lbs this time last year. wttttfffffffffffff!
So tomorrow I'm cooking dinner for a about 6 people, thought I'd show some pics of what I'm cooking as it is starting to look good already and I haven't even put the oven on yet. I've never tried stuffing anything that isn't a bird, so risky game to play with mothers day tomorrow and the inlaws round for dinner.
The first pic shows the meat in it's original form. It's about 2kg of rolled boneless pork shoulder.
http://i50.tinypic.com/68hbmt.jpg
Second pic shows the meat unrolled. I also cut an extra layer into it so I could put two layers of stuffing.
http://i48.tinypic.com/2vskdhf.jpg
Next pic shows the stuffing I just made. It's made from scratch. 2 small apples, 1 large onion, about half a garlic bulb, a handful of apricots and a handful of of raisins all heated in a wok with butter for about 5 mins, then added salt, pepper and a load of fresh rosemary and sage and heated for a further 5 mins.
http://i49.tinypic.com/2rrnywm.jpg
Next pic shows me adding the stuffing to the meat. You can kinda see that I've cut the meat so it's like a book with 1 page, meaning I can add two layers of stuffing.
http://i48.tinypic.com/b6byae.jpg
Next two pics are of the meat rolled up. Will slow cook for 5 hrs or so tomorrow and add a pic when roasted.
http://i47.tinypic.com/2nq86bk.jpg
http://i45.tinypic.com/34rsras.jpg
rong that looks amazing, and I have found slow cooking is very forgiving on being very approximate with times.
also congrats chelle.. that is an awesome success story. it isn't easy to lose >40lb especially when it accounts for nearly 30% of starting bw.
mmmmm huge piece of meat
That will take so long to cook and probably won't cook well all the way through unless you slow cook it.
Yeah, I might plan on cooking it quite a bit longer than 5 hours. The nice thing with a roast like that, if need be it can rest, tented, for over an hour and still be good to serve.Quote:
Originally Posted by ImSavy
Looks good though, be sure to post the finished pics!
oh and I freaked out for a second, then realized you're in a country which seems to not know when mother's day is.
Clocks going ahead on English Mother's Day is lol...fuck you, mum, you only get 23 hrs.
You can roast 2kg of pork without slow roasting. This is shoulder so I'll be slow roasting, but if it was say leg instead, I wouldn't bother to slow roast it as its just not necessary. The shoulder is a slightly lower quality piece of meat than the leg so it pays to slow roast it. Cooking times for this one, about 30 mins at 220c to get the crackling going, then cover with foil and roast for a further 4 hrs at 170c, then take out of oven, remove from tray, add a layer of carrots (just sliced down the middle length ways), a couple of onions cut in half and maybe a couple of parsnips cut length ways, maybe even a couple of celery sticks. Place the meat on top of the veg and return to the oven for a further hour at 170c this time not covered by foil. That should come out so tender that you won't need a knife to slice it up, just a couple of forks to pull it apart. Although I may slice it for aesthetic reasons if the stuffing gives the effect I'm hoping for.
Looks badass man, even if you slipped up and accidentally stuffed it with plantlife instead of other different kinds of dead animal. Hope we get pics of the finished product too.
ty lukie, weighted myself without clothes, which makes me drop like 2 more lbs, so, holy fuck, i'm fucking 110, weeeee!
also, mother of god i want that food.
btw, does anyone know good food i can eat without having to chew? cause fuck braces.
with minimal chewing, some good protein sources are scrambled eggs, many types of fish, and even some types of meat if cooked right. for example it's very easy to make chicken falling apart tender when slow cooked in a crock pot, which is very easy to get carried away with and ordinarily wouldn't be very good, but in your situation might be more ideal.
then there's all the usual stuff, cottage cheese, yogurt, some fruit, mushy stuff, etc. you can also slow cook vegetables (veggies at bottom possibly with a little water, meat on top) and if cooked long enough they get almost soggy. again that's not normally my thing, but i can sympathize with tooth pain.
or throw some protein powder, berries, peanut butter, milk or water, and whatever else you can dream of into a blender.
you said chicken and it reminded me of the awesome chicken stuff i made about a month ago. i made my own cream of mushroom sauce/soup/gravy stuff, breaded some chicken in some spices/egg/flour, put it in a small pan, covered the chicken in the mushroom stuff, cut a few little slices in the chicken, and dear god, it was fucking amazing. cooked it really slow, like 1-2 hrs on low heat. damnit, now i want more of it. :(
lately i don't really eat a lot of meat, mostly veggies, though i do eat some meat, i just don't overload on it. been drinking a fuckton of water, and eating soup, and well, anything i can stand to barely chew.
lol, oh top of the fucking braces being tightened pain, apparently i have a few more kidney stones i have to go get checked out thursday. i've had one more, and they busted it up with the soundwave machine thingy. i've been having severe mid-low back pain since fucking december, went to the bigger well known hospital, the p.a. wrote me off, gave me vicodin, which, i've taken 2, since december. she said it was my scoliosis, said i needed to follow up with my GP, did that, he didn't know wtf to do, cause nothing showed up in the urine test for UTI's and shit. went to my female-parts p.a., she sent the stuffs off for a culture, bacteria showed up, was on cipro for 5 days, didn't help.
so, a week and a half ago, the pain got so bad i could barely walk, started out as a pressure, went into a throbbing pressure, then morphed into fucking throbbing stabbing pressure pain stuff, so i went to the near-by hospital, who has my complete records from being in the hospital back in september for a severe kidney infection, and i told dude-man doctor about having a kidney stone a few years back, which i also told the god damn p.a. cunt at the bigger hospital, well, the local doctor dude looked at my piss closer i guess, idfk. found fucking crystals and blood. he said more than likely if i've been having the same type of pain since december, i've been passing multiple fucking kidney stones. last few months i've been having random ass fucking bad nausea, severe pain, and feeling like shit physically. thankfully i'm in a crazy ass good mindset, and can deal with the pain, but fucking christ, how the fuck does this kind of thing just fucking fly under the radar for about 2-3 months, when i've been to multiple doctors/p.a. people? i understand that they're humans, they make mistakes, but, it's a common theme that they just seem to throw out fucking pain-pills to people, not just pain-pills, but fucking narcotics, that are addictive, and horrible for your body.
i think i just raged.
tl;dr - food is cool, water is awesome, braces are bitches, fuck kidney stones, and i'm a female.
the people demand updated pork shoulder pics!
Ah yeah, forgot. My phone battery died so pics are on my gf's phone so will have to wait 'til tonight.
Gonna go hang out with John McAfee in about 48 hours.
Please advise.
Don't say anything bad about his dogs.Quote:
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Fantastic writeup and discussion on the intricacies of why North Korea does what North Korea does
http://www.reddit.com/r/worldnews/co...gfm1?context=1
Is your profile pic an Alex Grey? That would be kind of cool of you if it were.Quote:
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Warning: This clip contains strong language often used in big business scenarios.
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Things are going well.
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How's that?Quote:
Originally Posted by boost
Gonna be needin some blowsy subbies for thisQuote:
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it certainly is.Quote:
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it's the cover art for "Lateralus" by Tool
^ yes'm
Ohhhhhhh dear
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature...&v=Ow7pwIDhl5c
k so, finished that beach painting
here it is -http://sphotos-b.xx.fbcdn.net/hphoto...08081128_n.jpg
Then I started a new one a few days ago.
still a work in progress
http://sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net/hphoto...65566370_n.jpg
So you know when a sentence starts with 'I'm not racist, but...' it's going to be awful?
http://www.notracistbut.com
hoi to the world
This is why I tell people, "I'm not racist, but you're beautiful."Quote:
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her char in easy a is one of the best
Is Easy A actually any good?