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tell the guy if he's your fucking bro. don't tell the guy if he's not. if he's not your bro, he'll probably get mad at you just for telling him
i'd like to think i live in a world where people are straight up with other people on principle, but that ain't the world. people are on the low all the damn time. if he's not your sworn homey, you can pretend like it ain't no thang and people will think that's normal
If you aren't close friends with the guy, then why do you give a shit if he whines like a bitch over it? Oh no, don't tell him because he might get mad. Wahhhh. Who gives a shit?
And what details could we possibly need to know that would mean we shouldn't tell the guy? This "he deserves to know" shit isn't the point. The point is to be a fucking man.
Of course she's going to lie about it and try to cover it up and act like you are either making it all up or that you were actually trying to get with her instead. Do you really think she's going to just confess as soon as she's confronted about it? I mean come on. It's on him to make what he will of it from that point on, and if he makes the right decision, then good.
If you would want a friend to tell you if you were in that position, then you should tell the guy.
If you wouldn't want a friend to tell you if you were in that position, then you're a pussy and your opinion doesn't count.
Get your fucking balls up.
Who knew Spoon is such an idealist
I guess it depends. I'm surprised at how many cheaters there are, but I also I guess I have to accept how many there are. It's nice to think you can make a difference by "being a man", but c'mon, the thing people are dumbest about is their relationships. This chick is clearly a psychopath who gets off on the idea of creating pain for the person she claims to love the most. What does that mean about the guy who marries her? I don't know. I guess it means people are all kinds of messed up and I'd rather just stay out of their bullshit. It's not like somebody who marries this chick will have his shit together to the degree that the truth will do anything for him other than make him point the finger
Ironically, I'm making a case that philosophically agrees with Spoon, but then belies it. But then again, the world really is Game of Thrones, where the honorable lose their heads and liars prosper. Maybe the thing that people need to know is whatever it is you tell them, and if somebody else tries to make you the object of their shittiness, sometimes acting like it didn't even happen is the way to go
Granted, you gotta tell your gf. Not sure if you already have. That's a super must
I shouldn't call her a psychopath. There are some plausible ways that a hyper sexually repressed person could elicit this behavior
Deception of loved ones is just nasty. Few things will make somebody hate the world like realizing they can't trust the people whose trust they need the most
It's worth noting that telling the other man and your girlfriend (and letting her know that you told the other man) is 100% self-serving and will increase your attractiveness to your girlfriend in that situation.
I told my gf about 1 minute after it happened. Still not sure if I'm gonna tell him. I mean the poor guy is just casually going about his day and I'm about to fuck it up good n proper. Not gonna be fun. Much easier to just ignore it. It's not like I see him very frequently.
Where yes, you're making a valid point that this is gonna fuck his shit up mentally - what happens if/when they have a kid together, she's caught fucking around, then the kid is put in the middle of Momma-Daddy drama because Mom couldn't be faithful to Dad?Quote:
Originally Posted by rong
What happens when/if he catches a dude in their bed? I mean, honestly, seems like an A+ decision to tell dude.
Never interfere in a girl/boy thing. Bad things happen.
What if it's a girl/girl thing?
Best point actuallyQuote:
Originally Posted by spoonitnow
The thing is though, when trying to act boss you have to be prepared to be an actual boss. Somebody who would normally take no bullshit and tell the guy and have no regrets can get it done unlike somebody who is wishy washy and doesn't really know how to handle any of the potential ramifications and weakly decides to tell him. The "be a man" thing isn't so much "do what's right" but "be in charge"
Equating "being a man" with telling the dude seems too simplistic and maybe even a little warped. I think telling might be the best thing for the other guy in general, but I'm sure some guys would rather just not know, it's not like she got dicked, and I know we're assuming she's just a complete slut who shags about but that isn't necessarily the case.
With this guy it's the fact that he's quite a brow beaten Pussy that puts me off telling. I mean he prob can't do any better looks wise and they've been married for 10 years and have 2 young kids. I don't think he'd leave. He may not even tell her he knows. He might just carry on as normal but spend the rest of his life feeling a little more pathetic and sad than he otherwise would have.
Now of course I can't know any of this for sure, but its feasibje.
I guess my point is I don't think telling is best for everyone. But again, I'd want to know if I was in his shoes, but he ain't me.
I normally don't get involved in situations like these, but when I do, I move to Mexico City.
All kidding aside, I've never been in this specific situation but with kids and everything I'd probably try to get as far away from it as possible. I'm divorced and know quite a few attractive mothers of kids my twins go to school with, and a scenario similar to what rong is describing would be a drama-filled shitstorm for sure. I wouldn't want any part of it and would keep my mouth shut while also staying far away from the "wife," regardless of whether I was acquainted with her husband.
Although I'd probably tell my GF, I definitely wouldn't say a word to the "husband," but that's just based on my personal situation and wanting to avoid having my 10-year olds get caught up in any drama/classroom rumors about naughty parents.
About two decades ago I was seeing a waitress at a 24-hour restaurant I was working at. We had some fun for a couple of weeks and then her male roommate (whom I was friends with) let me know that he was also sleeping with her. It didn't phase me (or really surprise me) at all, but maybe that's because I didn't have feelings for her. We both went our separate ways shortly thereafter and no one got hurt to my knowledge.
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AND TWINS
Haha, my twins are both boys, but that's a great ad throwback. Brings back memories!
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Dear president of the united states, please save us all.
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Why is Barry Greenstein's younger brother trying to kidnap your kids. They don't even look Asian.Quote:
Originally Posted by dhubermex
Oh monogamy. A beautiful thing if it comes naturally to both parties and isn't the result of social pressures and a culture that teaches us to think of it as some kind of natural and immutable law. A culture that makes us believe that the physical act of cheating is what is inherently wrong, and not the deception.
Nothing wrong with "shagging about" if you're honest and have dignity, and everything is coming from a consensual and healthy place. Sex is great and everyone should have as much of it or as little of it as they'd like, with how ever many people as their hearts desire, as long as everyone's happy and honest, both with themselves and others.
I say all that to illustrate that this is a symptom of a larger problem regarding the globally prevalent attitude towards sex and relationships, and the many pressures that force people into situations that aren't right for them.
All that being said, I do judge her for the way she went about it. Massively disrespectful. I say do whatever you think is best for the dude in the long run. Maybe keep an eye or ear out if she keeps doing this. Could be one of those things where ultimately time will reveal whether it's best for you to say something or not.
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i have been waiting so long for an appropriate time to use this. this probably isn't it but i can't wait any longer.
bwahahahaha. man i'm a softie for these types of video advice segments.Quote:
Originally Posted by jyms
Haha... don't even get me & OngBonga started about Asian pleasures. I keep telling myself that once the boys are grown I'm heading off to Thailand.Quote:
Originally Posted by spoonitnow
Spoon, game theory called and said you're an absolute moron.
Try to lower your aspergers tinted glasses and view this social situation without the crutches of hollow creeds like "be a man." Claiming that telling the guy is always the best move for yourself muchless for all involved is asinine.
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Originally Posted by boost
Typical for you to sling insults and try for a condescending tone, but whatever.Quote:
Originally Posted by boost
Nobody cares about the other guy because he's a fucking pussy and we're not friends with him anyway. The best thing we could do for that guy and his kids is to break up that marriage because that bitch is obviously ruining his life and their lives as well. The wife is a disrespectful harpy whore who's failing miserably to become the town pump, so nobody cares what she thinks either. The only people we give a shit about here are ourselves and to a slightly lesser degree the female we're with. Telling the female we're with followed by telling the guy gives ourselves and the female we're with the maximum gain. It also helps our relationship with the female we're with.
Edit: It's funny that you invoked game theory, because this does match up well to a lot of near-Pareto improvement scenarios where exploitation leads to a sizable gain for some parties for a trivial loss for others.
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Originally Posted by aubreymcfate
Einmal ist keinmal. AMIRITE?!Quote:
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lolol I fucking love that show.
Everything I said is still the truest thing anyone's ever said. Deal with it.
Except for my advice on how to handle things, that is. None of us can really say for sure.
as i sit here eating pretzels and sour cream i wonder how i still weigh 161 and not 611
hey bikes, that bird made me really happy
I agree with this. As long as noone is weird about it it's just a win-win thing is the way I see it now.Quote:
Originally Posted by aubreymcfate
me too :)Quote:
Originally Posted by aubreymcfate
Skinny is not necessarily healthy. You may have the insides of a 611 lbs guyQuote:
Originally Posted by bikes
wat.
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also - i watched and loled at this probably too much to not say something.
yeah i stared and loled at that for a good while.
bikes, i also have no business weighing what i do. we'll be human beanbags one day, i'm sure of it.
It sucks that George Carlin was never saved.
this was enjoyable. some guy made a tinder acct for edward snowden.
http://www.reddit.com/r/funny/commen...dward_snowden/
Entertaining post. Best ranked comment so far is, "I've blown a whistle or two in my day."Quote:
Originally Posted by bikes
http://bit.ly/1spcjXm
Spent 25 years in prison while innocent. Evidence recntly uncovered leads to charges being dropped entirely. All the while maintaining innnocence.
Sue govt for 162 Mizzle. Thoughts? How much is fair?
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Lol. You taking notes, spoon?
I can't imagine losing 25 years of my life due to a miscommunication. One time in grade school my lacrosse practice was cancelled last minute. I couldn't get in touch with my mom, so she picked me up at the normal time 2.5 hours after school let out. I wouldn't talk to her and I changed all the clocks in the house to 3:00.
I don't even know if I was pissed at her so much as I was in awe at how unfair life could be that I could lose 2.5 hours out of my day through no fault of my own. That's like two games of Madden.
Enough to retire on for sure, but 162 seems highQuote:
Originally Posted by Jack Sawyer
It's late and I'm half asleep. Was going through some old Chris Rock & Fly Guy I'm Gonna Git You Sucka clips and found these.
Seems high? Dude lost the best part of his life? I wouldn't sell 25 yrs for 162m. To put this right dude should be able to do whatever he wants for the rest of his life. Couple hundred mil seems about right imo.
Maybe a credit card with a 10 mil limit that the government clears every month.
Surely anyone could live comfortably for the rest of their life on a hundred mil? that would easily cover a mansion in beverly hills, 4 bentleys in the driveway and 4 holidays a year forever, right?Quote:
Originally Posted by rong
You know how people say time moves quicker as you get older because the world becomes more and more familiar and not worth paying attention to? The days flow together as fewer things distinguish themselves against the blur.
I've never been 50, but I imagine I could manage 25 wasted years and a 100 mil. Considering the breadth of novelty available to him in the world, he'll probably manage a lot more living between 50 and 60 than most anyone else.
I now a little better www.ratatype.comQuote:
Originally Posted by Galapogos
Nice 4 year old bump.
Fuck whoever commented that and anybody who looks like themQuote:
Originally Posted by surviva316
How does someone travel to Orlando with a family of 3+, spend multiple days there (presumably eating several meals, at a bare minimum), get a hotel room, make calls from the hotel room phone, buy tickets to Disney World, and travel back home without being able to prove it? Imagine the paper trail!! Screw the lawsuit, this guy could make a career out of running seminars for criminals on how to go completely undetected for days-on-end.
Sometimes I want to beat the living dog shit out of people, but then this whole other inner peace comes into play - and even though I am informed that I deserved to lose Justin, I just take a deep breath, understand they are trying to get a reaction and that's it, and then I just laugh. Still, that violent side is intense as fuck right now.
The reason I deserved to lose Justin? Because I ignored that person.
Chelle for people to say something like that just shows they are warped in the head and a cunt to go with it. No one needs stuff like that in their life so cut them out of your life ASAP.
Lol, thing is, I already did. Somehow, even though they were blocked, they messaged me on Facebook. It is/was the creepy dude that was bugging the shit out of me when I went to the smoothie place. He was very sure to let me know he didn't have time to wait on me, then attached two pictures of him with some chick. I'm seriously just like, "wait, fucking what?". I spoke to this fella' for about 2 hours, because I'm an odd person that is too nice. Mother fuckers are weird as shit. One of my friends said I should make a rule to myself, if someone comes up to me assume they're insane. Then I was like, "wtf man what does that say about me?!" then there were laughs.Quote:
Originally Posted by ImSavy
The following is a quick draft, and yes it's true:
Note: I want to point out that while the content of this post is true, the names have been changed for obvious reasons.
I have a young friend Ann who was 18 at the beginning of this story. I've been in a sort of mentor role to her in a way, and she's made a ton of progress in the past year as far as weight loss, dressing better, looking better and taking better care of herself goes. She's easily increased her SMV by at least two points, and she's making progress in other areas as well.
The Initial Mistake
About three months ago, he mentioned that she had gotten some work doing some drawings for a guy named Jack for his wedding. Jack was a friend of a friend, and she gladly accepted the work. They met at his home once to discuss the drawings and look at some sketches, and he came onto her. Ann is not used to any type of sexual attention at all for the most part, and though she'd had a couple of encounters here and there (including with a chick friend of hers), she wasn't very experienced. She ended up blowing the guy.
Ann told me about it, and she told me about how much regret she had over it and how she wished she wouldn't have done it, but she made a bad decision in the heat of the moment. My advice for her was to only meet in public from now on and to make it clear to Jack that it was a mistake, that he had nothing to worry about as far as telling the bride-to-be, but that there would be no more hanky-panky between the two of them. She agreed and told him what the deal was via text. At the time, he said he agreed.
Things Get Complicated
The next time Ann and Jack met was at an Arby's. He stayed on topic (the work) to begin with, but quickly got into telling her how good she looked and so on and so forth and that he really wanted to get with her again. She declined and said that if he continued along that line of conversation that she was going to leave. He continued, and she got up to leave. He followed her to the parking lot and shoved her up against her car, demanding that she have sex with him. After a short struggle, she was able to get into her car and lock the doors, and she left immediately.
By the following morning, Jack had sent her several text messages, and she had a number of missed calls and voicemails from him threatening her. She worked in a small, local grocery store at the time, and she was on break by herself in the break room. Jack walked into the grocery store asking for her, and thinking he was just a friend of hers, an older lady who also worked there said he could go on back to the break room to talk to her. He walked back, choked the shit out of Ann, wailed on her a little, threatened her and then left. Afraid of going to the cops, she picked herself up, dusted herself off, and all of that good shit, and then proceeded to finish her shift.
At some point a few days after this, I talked with her about a problem she was having. I had to basically drag it out of her, but this guy had put her into a dilemma. Jack had instructed Ann to come alone to a cabin about an hour away from her home that's out in the middle of nowhere, and he told her how he was planning to torture her and kill her as payback for what she had done. If she did not comply with his demands, then he said he was going to kill her family.
Time for a Restraining Order
I talk her into going to the cops. She had a ton of evidence on the guy including text messages, saved voicemails, bruising, and so on. It wasn't too complicated to get a restraining order on the guy. It's a small town, and someone tipped him off about the restraining order before he was served, so he showed up at her work again. This time she was standing alone up front at the cash register. He pushed her in the face, leaving her with a black eye, and made fun of her for getting a restraining order. He was served the order shortly thereafter, and for a while it seemed like everything had wound down.
In the meantime and for unrelated reasons, Ann quit her job at the grocery store and got a different job at a local Walmart. Things seemed to be going well.
Welcome to the Twilight Zone
One day, Jack saw Ann at work at the Walmart. He waited until she was going to the back for her break and dragged her into the family bathroom that's back with the layaway desk. He beat the hell out of her and threatened to kill her if she told anybody, and left. It took a good bit of convincing, but she went back to the cops over this and actually spoke with the same officer she had spoken with before. They took pictures of her injuries, had her checked out medically, and so on. And then things got taken to the Twilight Zone.
Not long before this, a report had been sent out to the sheriff's department in this area notifying them that a guy who was wanted for rape in Pennsylvania might be hiding in the area with family. There was a picture attached to this notice, and guess who it was? Our guy Jack.
Ann got put up in a hotel room for a couple of nights for protection, and a detective flew down from PA within 24 hours to interview her. They picked up Jack thanks to Ann's help. To speed this story along, he was taken back to PA, put in a guilty plea for the rape charges, and was sentenced to ten years.
Less than a week later, he tried to kill a security guard.
Less than a week after that, he tried to hang himself.
Yesterday, he cut his wrists and successfully committed suicide.
Thought I'd point out that both of the bold are cookie cutter late 90s PUA tactics being performed horribly. In his mind he's just swinging for the fences, and while there's nothing wrong with that necessarily, his "throw everything at the wall and hope something sticks" approach is mostly just good for turning chicks off.Quote:
Originally Posted by Chelle
TLDR: He's being a tryhard and chasing a pretty girl like his life depends on it instead of using these tools to get him over that initial bump of social anxiety and then letting things develop organically.
GALA KNOWS ALL ABOUT BEING A FILTHY TRYHARD
"SMV"
The worst part about being alive in this day and age is how easily things become acronyms. I don't have the brain space to remember half the ones I'm supposed to, and I've no knack for figuring out those I've never seen before.
Sexual market value. Sorry for that.Quote:
Originally Posted by a500lbgorilla
Haven't I read that same story before? To be fair, I didn't get past the first paragraph so maybe it's somehow different, but I definitely read the bit about you befirending some ugly chick who hadn't had much action and making her a bit hotter than before, but I think I lost interest at that point the last time too.
So is it the same story or do you just mentor lots of ugly chicks? Is that like a form of grooming?
Was the girl hot?Quote:
Originally Posted by Chelle
In fact, pics?
Fuck, how were you not jealous. I am.
I had mentioned some of what happened to this girl before, though she was never referred to as ugly in the least bit. You should keep reading.Quote:
Originally Posted by rong
Showed one of my friends that is aware of the situation the message which included the pics, and was the one that said, "Just assume people that approach you are insane." They said, "yeaaaaah, that shit will work on her easy."Quote:
Originally Posted by ImSavy
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Not a fan.
It feels like 100 out right now.
Its only 80, but that feels like 100 and rounding up 80 is 100
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fantastic
A happy ending. I remember when you first posted this story, and my response was something along the lines of digging a hole for him in the countryside or desert or whatever. I hope this girl doesn't feel bad about this guy being dead. He can't hurt her or any other women any more. Fucking scum deserved everything he got. I hope he got buttfucked in prison before he killed himself.Quote:
Yesterday, he cut his wrists and successfully committed suicide.
I agree that society probably gained from him not being here anymore. It's worth noting that there were apparently a number of other cases going that he was about to be lined up for. He would have most likely spent the rest of his life (or at least another 40-50 years) in prison.Quote:
Originally Posted by OngBonga
Bonus points if some necrophiles are ramming his dead buuhole. You know, really squeeze everything we can outta that sack.
You're all horrible people, clearly he was fucked but wow you're dicks.
Do his sideburns not turn you on?Quote:
Originally Posted by Chelle
But in all seriousness he's a dick, she's not a bad looking woman but you can (maybe wrongly) tell from teh way she looks that she's an attention whore.
Ignore the guy, he's a wanker, enjoy yourself.
Chicks with atypical hair colors are 100% attention whores every single time, dead giveaway
Or they're part of some artsy subculture. That one cutting edge girl goes pink and everyone's rocking a neon 'do before long.
"Attention whore". Another one of those labels that shouldn't exist.
I wanna say I like attention whores, because I do, but I don't like giving power to stupid words. I dont like sociopaths and narcissists. But people who like trying to fit in while also trying to stand out while also having a good time while also not jumping all over others are basically normal. Unless they're chicks. Then they're attention whores and sluts and whatever stupid labels people use
She looks like a perfectly nice person
Yeah but attention whore is just the perfect label for a lot of people. Being an outgoing person or having a unique hairstyle is fine, but taken in the context of a bunch of other possible characteristics of an attention whore, it becomes a pathology.
It's like when they diagnose depression by asking you if you have 5 out of 7 of the warning signs.
Yeaaaah, I don't think that someone with an 'atypical' hair color has much to do with their want for 'attention'. In my opinion, she is relatively attractive, though not my type. She seems easily impressed with people, but that's all an assumption. Knowing this dudes approach to speaking to females - I can say she's probably easily impressed.
I'm going to agree with Renton and Wuf on the other aspects - because they're both right in that regard.
Anyway - that dudes face makes me want to fucking break him down mentally, completely destroy any/all mental health he has. Obviously, I'm not going to do that, because I don't wanna' be a piece of shit.
I don't think the label addresses a problem. It's like "slut": a word meant to degrade based on an idea of what's proper, not on any problems caused.
Watched some of the World Cup finals. First game ever. Not bad.
The lack of scoring is a problem. I don't mean that there needs to be a lot of scoring, but that when so many games are ties or boil down to shootouts, it's a structural flaw in the rules. I think the fix may be to widen the goal a couple feet or however much would make the average scores per game closer to 5 instead of 1 or whatever it is now. This would also make the game more exciting by not allowing coasting or stalling or whatever it's called when the score is 1 to 0 and the leading team plays defensive for the rest of the game. There is value in suspense and strategy when scores are low, but the way it is now, they're too low
Also apparently calling it soccer isn't wrong. The difference between "soccer" and "football" labels was a class warfare thing in Britain, not a Murica vs everybody else thing
Sometimes I feel like a loser because I don't pay much attention to sports - but then I think, oh fucking well. I've never really been interested in anything sport related, I've always been drawn to the arts, be it painting, drawing, writing, music, or the other many things that can be grouped into the label of 'art'. Though, sports, in their own way are an art - I just can't seem to really get interested. The only thing that is sport-ish that I've been drawn to is MMA related stuff, as far as watching. If you count dancing as a sport, or gymnastics - then that, but I was never a gymnast, though I always was interested in it.
In other news, I threw up for the first time in over 2 years. I know it's 2 years because of the braces. The idea of throwing up with the braces always terrified me, and it wasn't as bad as I thought it was going to be, but I did have to brush my teeth and rinse really really really good. I have like a 5cm cyst on my left side, and it's been hurting bad lately, so I think that might be why. Meh.
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y'all weird.
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Originally Posted by Chelle
fixed that for you.
On the internet the geeks are the bullying jocks and chicks that lots of guys would be fucking delighted to just talk to are sluts and attention whores. It's one crazy place.
LISTEN HERE JAMES MCAVOY. NOT ALL OF US CAN LOOK LIKE JAMES MCAVOY IRL!
You know, in the real world, there's a reasonable chance you'll get to have sex with her. She's not a ten, but she'll prob try pretty hard.
Why are you all dissecting me calling someone an attention whore as if it's the biggest insult possible and as a result that makes her a horrible person.
I have very close friends who are attention whores, it's definitely not a good character trait but it's hardly an awful one either.
Wuf don't say this to someone who knows anything about football, they'll think you ride the short bus to school. Think of how we or any poker forum would respond if some guy came here saying "so yeah yesterday I played some poker, game is ok but here's how I would fix all of the flaws: make the cards bigger and bla bla".Quote:
Originally Posted by wufwugy
Soccer fucking sucks and I would fix the game by making it punishable by death on a global level to play it or talk about it
yeah i know. i do it to get a rise out of you guysQuote:
Originally Posted by jackvance
maybe im just an attention whore
I don't think the girl in the picture is necessarily an attention whore. There is another type of girl who dyes her hair which has more to do with wanting to be taken seriously and being seen as a unique person and expressing herself. Hard to say from just one picture of course.
About the guy, it's a bit more clear what he's all about. So he hit on you running some monologue as if you were good buddies playing around while you're sitting there thinking "who the fuck are you?" he clearly sucks at reading the comfort level of the person he is talking to. Probably he is mostly motivated by being in competition with you, wanting to impress you and it doesn't properly compute in his brain that you aren't so that's why he'll become obnoxious and hurtful - he is just trying to get a rise out of you. Best to ignore him knowing that he'll be a huge bother to the women unfortunate enough to spend more time with him. It's typically a phase he'll grow out of.
There are some things you can do if you want to fuck with his head but it's not the worth the risk of maybe getting a stalker..
maybe?Quote:
Originally Posted by wufwugy
lol
this one time i kicked a ball.
WOOOO SOCCER!
I call it "Two Lives Lived"
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I'm nearly the most pacifistic person imagineable. I haven't had a fight in around 20 years, it's near impossible to piss me off enough for me to wish pain on anyone. But bullying and/or hurting women is one thing that can do that. Anyone man who rapes a woman deserves to be buttfucked in prison before dying of suicide, in my opinion. If having that opinion makes me horrible, then consider me proud to be horrible.Quote:
Originally Posted by ImSavy
Similar. When it comes to hurting women/children/elderly - those are the people I give less of a fuck about. As in - drop them off in the middle of a jungle without any type of way to survive and then let the wild take care of 'em.Quote:
Originally Posted by OngBonga
A limited amount of empathy for people this despicable is generally a good thing to have though. You very rarely get pure psychopathy; most aggressive/abusive behavior comes from child abuse. This guy probably was probably already butt-fucked before he went to prison to be honest, or at least suffered some serious childhood neglect or physical abuse.
Hoping people like this get buttfucked in prison shows a complete lack of understanding for the whole stated point of prisons: to rehabilitate people who were probably on a fucked path from age 8, not to get biblical justice on them.
^^ Truth
I understand what it's like to hate pieces of shit, but I also look back and think that there are times when I was a piece of shit. People don't understand pain they cause others. Even when they wish to cause pain, they don't understand how it feels to be in the kind of pain they're causing.
What makes us better than psychopaths is that we don't need justice. We only need to make sure they, and others who would follow in their steps, don't create pain again
this thread makes me sad
Sorry but this doesn't wash with me. Here's a brief outline of my life story...Quote:
Originally Posted by Renton
Mom has three kids and a fucked marriage by the age of 21. Dad is an arsehole who beats her. Mom leaves when I'm 4, we (me and two brothers) stay with Dad. He marries a fucking bitch who beats us. We're now very unhappy children and within a couple of years it's all falling apart. Older brother gets taken in by maternal Nan, younger brother gets taken in by his Godmother, I go to care to live with foster parents. I'm an angry little shit, no longer thriving in school like I was. Foster parents can't control me. Aged 11 I move to a children's home where I'm easily the youngest kid there, next youngest is 14. Life goes very wtf. I'm dicking around at school, shoplifting on a regular basis, throwing stones at cars and busses, I'm a horrible child. Aged 14 I move to another kid's home, this time out in the countryside. Life starts to regain some level or normalcy. I start to grow up and become less of a dick. Aged 16 I move out on my own, start collecge, meet normal people, suddenly life is awesome after a shit childhood. I've been happy ever since.
I find it hard to accept a shitty childhood as an excuse to be a shitty person. My shitty childhood made me stronger, not weaker.
Kids who get abused, they should understand more than anyone else the long term damage that it causes. So why as an adult do they feel it's a viable excuse for abusing children? It's not a viable excuse.
Rapists deserve everything they get. I don't care what shit they've been through that they want to use as an excuse. Don't fuck other people's lives up just because yours is shit.
Well done to you for overcoming. Shame others aren't so fortunate.
There is absolutely nothing more tiring than the "WELL I DID IT SO EVERYONE ELSE CAN" argument.
Well am I fucking special or something?Quote:
There is absolutely nothing more tiring than the "WELL I DID IT SO EVERYONE ELSE CAN" argument.