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Confessions of a poker degenerate
As many of you might already know, I recently made the biggest score of my life by taking third place in the FTOPS Main Event for a little over $150,000. I have already requested to withdraw the bulk of these winnings and my wife and I are planning on setting aside a good chunk to pay taxes and the rest to use as a down payment for our first house. Getting this money offline and into my bank account so quickly has added significance for me because it ensures that I will not donk it off. Because, in case you did not gather this from the title of this article, I am a poker degenerate.
On a forum that so strongly advocates good bankroll management, this is not a confession that I am proud of. In fact, it is very embarrassing. I am a smart, well educated guy. I should not being donking off my bankroll. Yet every time that I have built my roll up, I have fallen back in my self-made trap and donked it off. So I am not writing this to beat my chest and brag about how even a degenerate can win a huge chunk of change. Instead, my hope is that this will be a cautionary tale and maybe, finally, will be the last kick in the ass that I truly need.
For those of you that do not know, I started playing poker about three years ago when I was still in law school. I managed to build a roll up to about $3k and proceeded to move up in stakes and donk it off. I repeated this process by building a roll up to between $3-5 k on numerous occasions only to donk it back off every single time. Then, last year I made my first big scores by winning a $30 rebuy on Paradise and getting deep in some other tourneys. By April of last year I had won over $20k…. and by April of this year I was down to $40 which I didn’t even know I had on UB. I was fortunate enough to turn that $40 back to over $15k. But then, just this past week, I donked off 2/3 of that roll by losing over $10k playing 10/20 and 15/30 limit heads up. So those are the facts. But the facts are not as important as the why. Why do I constantly do this?
I think my biggest reasons for falling into my trap are that I hate to lose, and when I do lose I have a huge desire to make back my losses IMMEDIATELY!! So instead of following a rationale bankroll management, I do the opposite and move up in stakes. And when that doesn’t work I chase my losses. And when I lose a lot, I can’t sleep well, and then I wake up and the first and only thing I think of is getting my losses back, so I add more tables but I keep playing poorly since I am tired, and soon I am busto. I have done this process so many times it is sickening, and I know it is maddening to the other players out there who support me. But the cold, hard facts of the matter are that each time I have given myself a roll, I have proceeded to give the majority of it back. And that is just plain scary because now, even after withdrawing so much, I have a big bankroll and I don’t want to give it back but my past evidence and behavior tends to show that I will.
So the question now is what can I do to ensure that I won’t do it again? One of the things I am going to do is e-mail support at my sites and ask them if they can give me access only to playing MTTs. Another thing I am going to do is announce my roll to the players I chat with on a nightly basis to ensure that I am not playing in anything that I am not staked for. If that fails, I am probably going to have someone else maintain my roll and only give me enough to play with on a daily basis. And I am also open for any other suggestions. Because enough is enough and even though it extremely embarrassing and difficult to ask for – I need help.
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