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spoonitnow helps teenage girl
I know that I post random bullshit sometimes to help keep the commune churning, but the following is completely true and has played out over the past couple of weeks. I thought some of you would get a kick out of this since it's the opposite of my typical woman-hating schtick.
I have this younger chick friend (I'll call her Jane) who's 18 who works at this small, local grocery store I used to go to a lot before I moved. Jane talked some, and she desperately needed some direction in her life, so I offered her advice on presenting herself in a more feminine way, dealing with people, etc. I definitely fell into a sort of mentor role with her.
Jane was asked to do some work doing some drawings for a couple in their mid-20s who are getting married soon. We'll call the groom John. John was the one working with Jane for the most part, and they spent a significant amount of time alone at John's house. At one point, John came onto Jane, and Jane didn't really know how to react since she's never gotten much male attention of that sort. Her reaction was sub-optimal and involved her blowing the guy.
Later that day or the next morning, Jane told John that what happened was a mistake and that she felt terrible about it. She insisted that it would not happen again, and he agreed at the time. About a week later, John asked to meet with Jane over the drawings. They met at a fast food place (under my advice to keep it in public). He was relentlessly hitting on her and telling her how good she looked and all of this. Jane rejected John, and as Jane was leaving, John followed her to her vehicle. He pushed her up against her car and told her that he wanted to fuck her and that he always gets what he wants. Jane spazzed out, pushed him away, and got in her car and left.
The morning after the fast food meeting, she had 30+ missed called from him, tons of text messages calling her a whore/slut/etc. and voicemails with the same. That afternoon, John showed up at her job (small grocery store) and asked for her. Jane was in the break room by herself, and this old woman who runs things up front sent him back there to her since it's a pretty laid-back place. In said break room, John grabbed her by the throat and choked the shit out of her and went on some psycho shit. I can't recall if she spat on her or not.
At this point, Jane is flipping the fuck out and has no clue what to do. She hesitates to go to the sheriff's department because he's said that he will kill her if she does. On top of that, she doesn't want to be thought of as a slut for blowing the guy.
A few other similar incidents happen (this is long enough as it is). Yesterday, he told her to come to a friend's house that's in a bit of a secluded place, and she was almost scared into doing it. After a long talk and some spoonitnow-brand pimp talk, I was able to convince her to say fuck that and get a restraining order.
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