Having a crazy week (my brother got married last Friday and Greek family stuff has been ensuing ever since) but I'm def gonna check that out when things settle, sounds super interesting.
Speaking of game, I got hit on by this pimply faced young kid at Washington Square Park the other week, and I honestly felt so fucking bad for him. He approached me because I was sitting alone at a table (with headphones on and clearly doing something on my phone) and basically opened the convo by telling me he approaches girls that are alone. After I established that I had a boyfriend, he gave me his number so that I could find him a girl from one of my cute friends because he's "looking for [his] soulmate." Really inane conversation ensued and I humored the situation more than I should have because I'm too sensitive, and at the very least admired the balls he had to come up to me.
He was young (like could very well have just graduated high school), so I'm sure that accounts for a lot of the cluelessness.
On a broader note: I'm not well-versed in this alpha stuff or whatever, but the one thing I can say that I think jives with that whole school of thought is that desperation in guys is palpable and very repellent, while independence is really attractive. Sexual power play and dynamics are all fun and good, but it's hard to respect someone who abandons personal integrity out of neediness. Men and women who seek people that can be easily subjugated are the neediest of all.
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