I hear you. It's not really my thing, but I like to accommodate whatever's reasonable. Some chicks just need to get ragdolled and beat on to really feel okay about themselves. It's probably not unrelated that "
Women are up to 40% more likely than men to develop mental health conditions, according to new analysis by a clinical psychologist at Oxford University."
A lot of chicks are just fucked up and need to be treated like shit to feel like things are okay, and this goes for chicks who have had a "good childhood" as well. Women in general just hate themselves and resent the fact that they are women, so it makes plenty of sense that they like being dominated the way they do. What's really fun is when you give them what they really need along these lines and they start getting obsessed with you because no one has ever made them feel okay before you came along.
Because they become so preoccupied with wanting to make you happy, you can actually use this against them by setting expectations that will cause them to become better as individuals. So what you have is a chick who has essentially had her mental illness hacked to perpetuate self-growth which eventually leads to a certain level of regulated self-esteem that doesn't get out of hand.