Originally Posted by Bucko
I'm a long time player that's just trying to get a handle on online play. Here are a couple of tips that I would recommend, but I doubt they're what you're after.
One issue that tends to plague Hold'em when playing with friends is keeping the accounting straight. Who raised, how much, etc. I think that probably half the evenings that I've played is marred by somebody not understanding what has happened in the betting for a hand. It's harder in hold'em because you play so many more hands than you do in most games.
It may seem like a problem that a dealer is taking a rake, but to me it's worth it having somebody watching and keeping everything straight. Not to mention ensuring a fair deal.
A related issue that is a problem on physically small tables -- how many chips did a player put in? If a player calls and tosses a pile of chips into the center, mixing with the rest of the chips, it's often really hard to tell if they actually put in the right amount. I have seen more cheating through this move than any other. Usually nobody is willing to question whether a call or raise was correct if it's going to take 5 minutes to sort out who put in what chips. Try to let people know that they just put the chips out. The dealer will gather them into the pot when the time is right.
You probably won't have the latter problem, but keeping everything straight is still an issue. Whoever is dealing a hand is responsible for keeping things straight. I would insist that the dealer automatically repeat the action (call/raise $/fold) and try to keep chips separated until the dealer brings them together into the pot. It also helps if the dealer repeats the total each time...."$3.50 to Fred".
Well, that's my advice. It's just some nuts and bolts of keeping the game going well, not actual poker strategy. However since your friend is doing this for the first time he may want to consider it.