where to travel to in asia

[maxxscam]

gonna go at start of February, with a friend of mine, we are both 25 what were looking for is:
nice beaches
reliable internet
nice affordable living accommodations
good party/club scene
hot girls (some non asian girls, as i'm kind of sick of them) maybe a touristy city
friendly locals/ not much crime

also i have a friend in bali and another in bangkok , so those are two spots i might go, thinking of staying 1 month in each place, any tips or recommendations are appreciated.
also is it easy to get accommodation for 1 month in a furnished apt or condo, rather not stay in a hotel as theres two of us so wed have to get 2 rooms and it'd be like 6 k a month or something silly, but also don't want to commit for more then a month in a certain place. i will be staying in asia from start of feb to end of june i think if everything works out.

my friend that i'm going with wants to check out singapore so what are the good cities to go to there, i really know nothing about it.

some friends already mentioned phuket as a good place to check out so so far have

bali, indonesia
phuket, thailand
bangkok, thailand

thanks again for any info guys

[Xianti]

Phuket is definitely awesome and a month there will be a month of awesomeness. You won't see many non-Asian girls anywhere in Thailand, though.

One day in Bangkok and I wanted to get out. It's crazy crowded and noisy there. Not a place to chill, but if you like big city life, you may like it.