dude you have a serious problem. I know because I had a similar one.
OK, so you make a mistake (which I don't think was really that bad) and you wanna make up for it, you buy the girl some flowers, she smiles and says: "Thanks babe, i forgive you" and gives you a nice big hug and kiss!
Problem solved...
2 weeks later you make another mistake and you wanna make up for it. You buy the girl some flowers and a chocolate(or whatever) and she's happy and says its ok babe I forgive you...
and so on and so forth until eventually (and I suspect you may have reached this level already) You guys fight and regardless of who started or was wrong or right she then expects some sort of gift from you in apology. she doesn't get it. she's not happy. end.
Make sense? Gifts should be something special, spontaneous or romantic. They should not be given out of guilt or from an situation where fighting was an issue.
(my opinion anyway).
for lack of a better analogy: you give a dog a treat every evening just after you feed him. the dog begins to think that the treat is a part of his meal and expects it with his meal so the treat is in fact no longer a treat in the sense of the word but simple an expected (and granted) extra.
treat her well all the time, but treat her particularly well only sometimes. thats my theory anyway
later
