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Originally Posted by BananaStand
Alright, but please know that you'll get no such courtesy from me.
It wasn't a courtesy to you, but to myself.
Originally Posted by BananaStand
We should have a talk about the Amish. Also, have you spent any time with someone who chews tobacco??
I've never met an Amish person, so I have no opinion about any Amish people.
I don't recall ever hearing of an Amish crime wave or any genocides committed by anyone saying it's the Amish way.
So it's got that going for it, I guess.
I'm friends with a guy who chews tobacco and yeah, it's not an attractive look, but I'm not trying to date him, so I don't care. Besides, I got married women telling me like once a month they'd ditch their husband for that guy. So I guess it's not too ugly.
I'm more offended by unwashed heathens on the metro sharing their BO with the rest of us.
Originally Posted by BananaStand
If you could push a button that would give you free cable for life, but it means 3 tobacco chewers would die, would you do it??
lol, no. WTF?
Them chewing tobacco is nothing to me.
I don't have or want a cable subscription, either. TV is the opposite of entertainment, and there isn't a single non-entertainment news source on American TV, so I'll stick with my internets.
Originally Posted by BananaStand
I fucking would. Twice.
Right. But... the chewing tobacco thing was a red herring, wasn't it?
You'd press any button that kills 3 random humans that aren't you or your kids for a piece of gum.
Originally Posted by BananaStand
That was kind of a cunty move. You know exactly what that guy was.
Kinda funny how there wasn't a single complaint from anyone that I acted out of line, though, huh?
Kinda interesting that the conversations over that day you were gone involved a lot of people pretty much understanding each other and progressing from point to point in an organized manner.
Kinda interesting that people actually were able to educate each other without the white noise of condescension and (frankly) expertly veiled insults you shovel around, huh?
I don't know 'exactly' what anyone is, not even myself. I've surprised myself at what I can accomplish many times, often good, sometimes bad. I've seen both my parents reinvent their lives after they were over 60. No one knows the depth of what they are / will be.
Originally Posted by BananaStand
If you'd like, I could enlighten you on the difference between a dignified, valuable, socially well adjusted gay man, and a person who should be set on fire for absolutely no other purpose than utilitarian efficiency of helping to set something larger on fire faster. But to explain that, you'd have to put the ban hammer down
What have I ever done that even hints that I would like that?
I have never cared for your spew of ridiculous, insular justifications of why you happen to be the arbiter of what is good and right in this world and whom deserves what - as if there isn't a clone of you half-way round the world saying identical shit, but they're the hero in their version, and you're the villain. Difference? Location of birth.
Originally Posted by BananaStand
Did you not know that I'm white? Or are you some kind of racist?
I've heard you tell us you're white and I have no reason to think otherwise.
IDK, maybe I am the kind of racist who wouldn't turn down a bank loan which would be denied to me if I wasn't white. Maybe I am the kind of racist whom gives lip service to equality but will take advantage of the rights and services I receive based solely on my skin color. I probably am. It'd depend on my knowledge of the severity of the situation before I denied myself services I need on moral grounds.
Originally Posted by BananaStand
Honestly, I think it was fine. I think I knew early on it wasn't gonna last. It ended relatively amicably. I got three healthy kids out of it. And I broke free while I can still get erections. Not ideal. But not all that bad.
That's... the most healthy-minded, adult thing you've ever posted on FTR.
I'm glad to hear it.
Originally Posted by BananaStand
I'll admit, whatever I'm seeking is a rare bird that even I cannot define. Most of the women I attract are either A) divorced, with kids, and looking to play brady bunch. B) baby crazy. Or C) About to become baby crazy. I have no interest in any of that.
Don't stop looking. It doesn't matter what "women" like. Just the one woman you're looking for. She's looking for you, too. The rest of them can do whatever, look like whatever, be as crazy as whatever, etc.
When you find the right woman, it will blow your mind at how easy things can be. Relationships are still hard, and will always involve sacrifices and compromises, but when you find the right one, all the negotiations become a passing conversation where you both immediately get where the other is and adjust accordingly.
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