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I think attraction is ultimately more integrated for women.. like, being an alchemy of looks and personality. Like, a guy who isn't conventionally attractive but has an offbeat look that is also super intelligent, charismatic, etc, can be the sexiest guy in the world. I think this happens with guys too (like a woman who's cute but has an amazing personality/charisma will be sexier than a boring woman with supermodel looks), but I think there's a lot more leeway when it comes to what will attract a woman. That's just from my personal experience and what I've noticed in others.
I've never felt any significant attraction to just the sight of a fit male body. Getting a sense of a guy's disposition is a must. Like, I can appreciate a fit male body and realize yeah, it's hot, but I'm not inspired by any kind of lust when I look at one.
With casual attraction, yes, conventional standard levels of attractiveness helps, men or women. But again, there's still disposition, style, etc.
Then again, wuf, you're also talking specifically about weight, which is slightly different.. I agree, the leaner guy will have the advantage with casual attraction, for sure.
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