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 Originally Posted by poop
I could argue, with just as much evidence, that everyone on the course would treat her with nothing but respect for taking her medicine like a grown up. The truth is probably somewhere in-between the two extremes.
The average is between the two extremes. Only, getting respect doesn't counter the negativity. Would you like to be called an arsehole and then have someone else say they have respect for you? Or would you just prefer everyone leaves you alone?
Either way it's irrelevant to the bigger issue of whether her actions were defensible or not. You don't get to say "well worst case scenario she'd get bullied for four hours - ergo it's fine she asked her underling to sort out some special treatment for her." That won't hold up in court.
I'm glad you're using the word "bullied" because that basically is what it amounts to. And if someone is legitimately concerned about bullying, and I do believe a Tory MP would have such concerns in this setting, then I do believe that attempting to find a solution amounts to defensible behaviour. idk about her speeding, that might or might not be defensible. 90 on a motorway? No problem. 45 in a 30? Nope. The latter isn't defensible. But that's not what we're debating here, we're talking about her trying to avoid being bullied.
A prisoner doesn't get excused for digging a tunnel out of jail just because you can understand why they would do it.
A prisoner has the right to be kept separate from inmates if he is in danger. It's called solitary confinement, nobody wants it because it sucks more than being scared for your safety out in the yard, but we're talking about years here, not a day. This is a poor example. A prisoner has presumably committed such a serious crime that he needs to be removed from society. These speeding classes are not "prison". They aren't necessary, a fine and points or ban is a sufficient deterrent. If a driving offence is so serious that we should not give due consideration to the prospect of the offender being bullied or afraid of their wellbeing, then the offender should go to prison. And people do go to prison for speeding. Try going 150 down the motorway if a Ferrari and upload the footage to youtube. They'll make an example out of you.
You'd ask one of your underlings to sort out a special 1-1 course for your personal fuckup speeding fine? If so, then you'd be an entitled cunt too.
I'd want to find a solution for sure. Maybe being male I'm more capable of turning up to one of these classes and waiting for it to get out of hand so I can justifiably leave. If I were female I'd be much more inclined to want to avoid the situation altogether, especially if I were a fragile little lamb.
I can believe that you'd just take the 3 points on your license rather than take the course.
Not all points are equal. She might have previous, which would mean these points are a ban. For some people (not her) having any points on your license is a big problem for your work and might mean getting fired. I'm not sure what motivated her to not take the points. You're right, in most cases you'd think it's the obvious solution. Not sure why she didn't.
If she was caught drunk behind the wheel I'd have a great deal less sympathy. With speeding, most cases are bullshit, like getting trapped at 35 as you transition from a 40 to a 30, with arsehole cops catching you with their radar from behind a bush. Most speeding offences are people getting caught by scammer cops when they were driving perfectly safely. It's a huge money maker for them. So I sympathise with nearly everyone who gets caught speeding. It's just the wankers driving like idiots I don't feel sorry for. No idea if she was driving like an idiot, I doubt it.
Sure I'd feel different if it was someone I respected, but the problem is someone I respected wouldn't try this dodge.
I'm impressed you have so much faith in the Labour party. I think it's misguided faith though.
It's not that I want to accuse you of being a hypocrite, it's that I want you to appreciate that you view these matters through a political lens. Not everyone is equal to you. That's a contradiction in your ideology that perhaps you should be aware of.
But let's say he did. I'd still say it was wrong. Or let's say my grandma did it. I'd still say she was wrong. So your argument is not only irrelevant, it's incorrect.
You'd be a lot more sympathetic to the bullying Starmer would face. That was the point I was making. You'd find it much more distasteful since the nature of the bullying would be right wing on left wing, as opposed to vice versa.
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