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    http://www.flopturnriver.com/pokerfo...08-post14.html

    Cliffs:
    - had sex! 5 months ago
    - girl became preggers (fucking Trojans)
    - going to be a daddy on June 14th
    - said female is hawt

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    Oh, pics are of the mother-to-be of course.
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    How old are you and her?
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    I'm 21, she's 18.
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    gl/rungood!
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    Quote Originally Posted by supa View Post
    You are so gonna be her bitch.

    Hahahahahahaha


    +1

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    I cant help but think; you shallow bastard!
    good luck with daddidom.
    and... she is hawt.
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    Well there goes your operation.
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    Quote Originally Posted by dranger7070 View Post
    http://www.flopturnriver.com/pokerfo...08-post14.html

    Cliffs:
    - had sex! 5 months ago
    - girl became preggers (fucking Trojans)
    now lets stop right there. condoms?
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    So dranger isn't gay?? Good way to lock in a girl out of your league!

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    Quote Originally Posted by dranger7070 View Post

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    Nice.
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    btw, props on actually delivering pictures.

    That being said, this won't end well. But have fun playing house while it lasts.
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    For anyone about to make posts like boost's, what's the point? Let the dude be happy.
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    ^this.

    I mean the poor kid's facing a lifetime of pain and misery. Let him have his moment.

    Just kidding bro. Life is gonna change fo shizzle but greater ways than you can imagine. Just try to make the right decisions (you rarely will, but try) and remember to be happy.
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    'this' was meant for dans comment but works with JKDS' as well. Maybe better.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lolzzz_321 View Post
    what does she do? (besides you)
    She doesn't swallow, that's for sure
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    - girl became preggers (fucking Trojans)
    r u sure I dont need to "fyp" to this?
    - girl became preggers (fucking w/o Trojans)
    If not then you are officially the first person I know to get a girl preggers using a glove.
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    jesus christ, dranger


    gl buddy
    your banner burned here
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    In all seriousness, congrats Dranger and I hope things go well... it isn't easy, and 13 years from now you'll definitely understand my point.

    Congrats!
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    If this is her bj face, you will be just fine. gl sir.
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    Curious as to why you think it wont end well, boost?

    I wore a glove.

    I dont think any kid of mine is powerful.enough to.rock the name Boog lol.
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    Idk I guess I kinda get where youre coming from boost. Its going to be an.uphill battle.every day to make the relationship.work, but no point condemning it before we even try.
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    No way in hell.shes ever seeing ftr lol

    Dear god I hope not flobro
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    I can tell from her face that she'll still look cute after she gets fat.

    GL, congrats.
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    Quote Originally Posted by boost View Post
    Surprisingly enough, not my first reaction lol
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    You guys can have your feel good, pat on the back moment if you want. But I'm just being realistic. Chances are heavily stacked in favor of this not ending well. Having this knowledge might just be enough to help him (and her) actually make it work (whatever "make it work" means to them in this situation.)

    I'm sure this goes without saying, but even if the relationship does sour, be sure to be the best parent you can be. Start now... start reading. Don't wait until your hand is raised to decide whether or not you'll spank/hit your kid. Don't just figure that it will all works itself out. Treat this shit seriously, put more effort into this than anything else in your life, and if you do that, even if there isn't a picture perfect Disney ending, things should turn out more or less ok. So ya, good luck and best wishes, you stupid fuck.
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    Quote Originally Posted by boost View Post
    You guys can have your feel good, pat on the back moment if you want. But I'm just being realistic. Chances are heavily stacked in favor of this not ending well. Having this knowledge might just be enough to help him (and her) actually make it work (whatever "make it work" means to them in this situation.)

    I'm sure this goes without saying, but even if the relationship does sour, be sure to be the best parent you can be. Start now... start reading. Don't wait until your hand is raised to decide whether or not you'll spank/hit your kid. Don't just figure that it will all works itself out. Treat this shit seriously, put more effort into this than anything else in your life, and if you do that, even if there isn't a picture perfect Disney ending, things should turn out more or less ok. So ya, good luck and best wishes, you stupid fuck.
    I so rarely agree with you, but +1 to above.
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    100% sure my kid will be spanked when he/she majorly fucks up.

    Appreciate the reality check boost, im scared shitless,.excited, anxious, ecstatic all rolled into.one right now. I wont take this lightly.

    As of right now, 'make it work' means starting a relationship amd if.tgings.go.well over the.next few.months she'll move in with me, etc. A few.years down the road possibly think about marriage, but one step.at a time. We're both really young, no need to force things, if it doesnt work, it doesnt work.

    Ive made very very poor choices in the past and im determined to screw this up as little as possible. I stopped smoking weed completely, and once the baby is born ill only ve drinking on planned nights out. Obviously havent even tapped the tip of the iceberg when it comes to decisions involving this child so I wont even try to act like I have. Im just really happy both my parents are supporting me in this.

    Gl me.
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    Wait, so did the condom break?
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    Fucked if I know man, I was less than sober at the time.and.it was rough sex.

    Paternity test immediately after birth is.the game plan for.now. Cant reallu.worry about.the details if its mine. She's 100% sure its mine tho, claims no sex 3.5 months to us hooking up and no sex since.
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    Quote Originally Posted by dranger7070 View Post
    Fucked if I know man, I was less than sober at the time.and.it was rough sex.

    Paternity test immediately after birth is.the game plan for.now. Cant reallu.worry about.the details if its mine. She's 100% sure its mine tho, claims no sex 3.5 months to us hooking up and no sex since.
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    Isn't this the chick that celtic123 got pregnant ?





    Ive made very very poor choices in the past and im determined to screw this up as little as possible. I stopped smoking weed completely, and once the baby is born ill only ve drinking on planned nights out.
    time for another reality check, giving up the weed is good but seriously quit the drinking/planned nights out now . get used to actually being with her every day after work and weekends. This is part of the lifestyle changes that you are accepting by making the relationship with her. You need to get used to each others habits (good and annoying) as rapidly as possibly and not wait til the baby is getting close.

    She shouldn't be drinking now anyway , show her that you can make sacrifices for her and stay off the booze with her because babies are f**king expensive so you need to start saving every penny you can ,as soon as you can. . If you come home having been drinking its gonna end up in arguments ,partly because the she'll resent the fact that you can still drink whilst she shouldn't ,partly because the alcohol will make you more likely to actually react to any comments she may make.After the birth, you're gonna be too tired to think about going out , and if shes breast feeding she's still gonna have to stay off the booze and from then on the priority should be your kid.

    You're no longer the individual doing what you want when you want, you're part of a family unit giving up some of your freedoms, but the rewards if you put the effort in more than make up for it with the unconditional love that the kid will give you. You'll start ticking off all the milestones and take pleasure from first time the kids sleeps through the night, first tooth, starting to crawl, first steps , first words etc.

    Paternity test immediately after birth is.the game plan for.now. Cant reallu.worry about.the details if its mine. She's 100% sure its mine tho, claims no sex 3.5 months to us hooking up and no sex since.
    this can be a biggie. does she know , have you discussed it with her , if not have you really thought about what you'll do if it isn't yours. What if you find you really do get on with her settle down and find that the kid is not yours. Would you abandon her and the kid when shes gonna be under severe pressure or thought about how you'll feel having gone through all the mental adaptation to fatherhood to find out your'e not the dad.

    Its a shitty position to be in but do you show her that you trust her even though she may be a lying bitch and slept with someone else. You can still choose to be a great father to the kid without being the genetic father but it will be easier to do if you don't know the fact one way or the other. Parenthood makes you grow up rapidly and you've got some tough decisions to make.
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    Daddy daycare is a shit movie

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    @ lolzzz: we discussed it briefly, she didn't seem open to it and I didn't pressure her about it. I'm not really that into giving my kid away anyways.

    @Keith: I didn't mean I'd be boozing twice a month or something. I'm planning on having one last bash before daddy time about a month before its born (you're invited ofc bikes) and going out and having a good time. You might say its selfish of me because she cant go, but that is your opinion and you are more than welcome to it. When i meant planning weekends for drinking/going out/etc that included date's/nights out with the mother ofc. Not just random boozing with friends while she takes care of the kid

    I'm not the most responsible person, but I'm well aware of a lot of the sacrifices I'll have to give up and I'm willing to do so. I'm also willing to put in 100% effort into the relationship and the only way she doesn't end up with a ring on her finger is if one of two conditions are met: 1.) She winds being fucking INSANE (I won't specify my criteria for this, I'll know it when I see it) 2.) She doesn't want it. I'm not saying I'll marry her tomorrow or even 2 years from now. Just when I feel the time is right, I'd want to make it for real.

    If it's not mine, ugh. Would be such an awkward spot, but I'm almost 100% sure I'd walk away. I'd offer her support, but there would be no chance for a relationship. Mostly because she lied to me, but also because I'm not interested in raising another man's child when I'm this young. If I was 28 or something, I'd strongly consider it if we had a good foundation for a strong relationship.

    My parents are pushing me to get the paternity test, and I want one as well for the reasons stated above. It's not that I don't trust her, I don't trust any female. I'd probably get a paternity test if it was my wife tbqh. That might seem wtf to some of you guys, but that's my choice and right as a father and I'll exercise it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by dranger7070 View Post
    I'm also willing to put in 100% effort into the relationship and the only way she doesn't end up with a ring on her finger is if one of two conditions are met: 1.) She winds being fucking INSANE (I won't specify my criteria for this, I'll know it when I see it) 2.) She doesn't want it. I'm not saying I'll marry her tomorrow or even 2 years from now. Just when I feel the time is right, I'd want to make it for real.
    How well do you guys know each other? How long were you going out for before she got pregnant?
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    Quote Originally Posted by dranger7070 View Post
    It's not that I don't trust her, I don't trust any female.
    The fact that you don't trust any female basically means she's included. Jus' sayin.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Keith View Post
    Isn't this the chick that celtic123 got pregnant ?
    No. You probably can't judge this as a Brit, but this chick is much less long in the tooth.

    Both figuratively and literally.
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    Congrats dranger, impressed you've given up weed, believe me getting some bint preggers is all that will stop me smoking the shit. Oh, and lung cancer.

    I'm an uncle, not a daddy, but my brother is a wonderful father, and my nephew is a wonderful child, my bro still drinks a few cans now and then and goes out with his mates for poker or football matches or whatever, his wife-to-be still has her girlie nights, it gives them a night of relaxing and relieves the stress that being a parent inevitably brings. Everyone needs some me-time, just be responsible in how you spend that time. Getting a little drunk, fine. Getting piss paraletic, maybe not. You could become vegan and bring your kid up as a fucking catholic, or you could still have friends and a social life, allow your lovely gf to do the same.

    Good luck to you, and your girlfriend. Seriously, bravo on knocking the weed on the head, the last thing you need as a father-to-be is a lack of motivation. I understand how nice it is to be stoned, and how tough it is to just stop, so really, well done.
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    Yeah getting high was always something did for fun.anyways. No need to take risks like that now though.

    @ whoever asked: it was kind of a one nighter with some contact afterwards. We talked and hung out until mid-November when I ended up dating.someone else
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    dranger, giving people advice on these sorts of things is really tough to do for many reasons that we all know, so I'm not particularly looking to do that. However, it seems you're open to it, and something we all learn about life is how much things change over time, so I'd like to give you two points

    If I were forced to break down the "How To" of successful intimate relationships and successful parenting in just one point each they would be

    - Relationships: Honesty and communication above all else. Even if you don't wanna say it or if she doesn't wanna hear it, it WILL come out in one form or another, and the only way to make it smooth is through honesty and communication. This is a bit more in depth than people like to think because it means things like if you have enough of a desire to smoke weed, you're gonna have to find a time and place to do it. Just don't let things build up because then the "new normal" becomes inescapable denial until that trigger that blows it all out

    - Parenting: "Do as I say, and as I do". Humans are really just imitators. Everything that you are is an imitation of how your environment and role models have nurtured your behavior. The biggest fail that parents make, and it's not even close, is in being hypocrites, in not teaching behavior through example, and in believing that they can force their kid to be different than they are. You have nothing to teach your child other than what you are and what you do; never forget that
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    Quote Originally Posted by wufwugy View Post
    Wait, so did the condom break?
    the what?
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    Quote Originally Posted by dranger7070 View Post
    When i meant planning weekends for drinking/going out/etc that included date's/nights out with the mother ofc. Not just random boozing with friends while she takes care of the kid
    I think you are seriously underestimating the early months of the kid here . take it from me having been there done it twice . Any time you can get off or get some help babysitting you'll be far more interested in catching up on sleep than going out on a date.
    If it's not mine, ugh. Would be such an awkward spot, but I'm almost 100% sure I'd walk away. I'd offer her support, but there would be no chance for a relationship. Mostly because she lied to me, but also because I'm not interested in raising another man's child when I'm this young. If I was 28 or something, I'd strongly consider it if we had a good foundation for a strong relationship.

    My parents are pushing me to get the paternity test, and I want one as well for the reasons stated above. It's not that I don't trust her, I don't trust any female. I'd probably get a paternity test if it was my wife tbqh. That might seem wtf to some of you guys, but that's my choice and right as a father and I'll exercise it.
    Prenatal Paternity testing

    is something you could consider. Beware though , it does carry a risk of miscarriage. We went through it with our second child. the normal blood tests around the 22 week mark showed a much higher risk of downs syndrome than normal. i think it was 1 in 35 against 1 in 400 ish in general population. That was our shitty spot , risk the pregnancy and lose a healthy child, or find out that it was a down syndrome child and then decide whether to keep or terminate the baby. Luckily, the results came back negative for downs so we didn't have to face that decision.

    Has she told you why it took so long before she told you ? at five months gone she should have been through a couple of ultrasound scans already and seriously she must have know for at least 3 months that she was preggers.
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    Congrats buddy! I hope you're coping with the mindfuck like a star, and I've every confidence that although it'll be a mission you'll manage to start getting your shit together with this kind of a responsibility in your life

    glglglglglk talk to you sometime on skype or whatever
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    Quote Originally Posted by dranger7070 View Post
    We talked and hung out until mid-November when I ended up dating.someone else
    do the maths .....she was ~6 weeks pregnant here , she must have had an idea that she was late
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    Incredible that her best option was to blame dranger for the pregnancy.

    Or he was the first dude that didn't tell her to get that shit flushed.
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    Or he was the first dude that didn't tell her to get that shit flushed.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bikes View Post
    fwiw i think this girl is pretty douchebagish for not telling him straight away
    thissss

    and it may not even be yours? lol... I'd keep my fingers crossed
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    Quote Originally Posted by dranger7070 View Post
    Yeah getting high was always something did for fun.anyways. No need to take risks like that now though.

    @ whoever asked: it was kind of a one nighter with some contact afterwards. We talked and hung out until mid-November when I ended up dating.someone else
    The only thing that concerns me a bit here is your talk of marriage. Your moral obligation is to raise your child well. It could sour things if you always work on your relationship with the idea of marriage at the back of your mind - marriage is the commitment that you love someone so much, you want to spend the rest of your life with them. Definitely try to make a relationship work, but ensure that you have a plan for the possibility that, at some point, one of you feels that a lifelong commitment may not be the best idea.

    I hope you guys do fall in love and decide that you want to be together forever, but this is something that comes naturally, and cannot be forced.

    Also I definitely can't echo wuf's talk of honesty more strongly. Work to create an environment of honest, non-judgmental communication and you guys definitely have the best chance of doing well.

    Congrats btw.
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    I too find it odd that she's just now told you. I'd be a tad concerned the kid is even yours. No disrespect.
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    If it's yours, congrats

    If it's not, more congrats

    Kids change your priorities whether you like it or not. If they don't then you're not going to be a good father anyway. If they do, it's still hard to be a good father.

    I hope it's not yours. I really do.

    Questions:
    She had a one night stand with you and she hasn't had another one since or just before?

    She still in high school?

    When you asked why she waited to tell you, what was the answer?

    What do your friends think about this? (not forum friends)

    You should really talk to your parents, alot, unless your parents aren't very good parents.

    Don't post answers if you don't want to. It's just things to think about.

    All forum joking aside, this is serious and should be taken serious. Believe me, I know.
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    Dranger, most of what you have said makes me think you're going about this properly. The thing that worries me is you saying you'll hit your kid. I'm not telling you not to, but I will say that hitting my nephews is one of my biggest regrets in life.

    Read a tucking book. This is not some decision to be taken lightly. Read some scientific studies on the matter. The concensus seems to be that at best there is a short term positive behaviorial adjustment, but that comes with very serious and lasting long term negative impacts on behavior.

    To echo wuf, set an example with your actions. You surely don't want your kid to default to violence and aggression to solve his problems, or maybe even worse, if it's a girl, for her to respond positively to violence from a man she loves.

    Off topic: Ong, I challenge you to find one reputable study that shows positive correlation between marijuana smoking and lung cancer.
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    I think if you view discipline more like education, your kids learn much more
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    Off topic: Ive thought about teaching math/chem at various points in my life. The problem i run across is not the subject matter, but dealing with children. How to discipline? Or rather How to Respond to poor behavior? I have absolutely no clue. Anyone have recommendations on books to read for it? (sorta relevant cuz it applies to parenting a bit too)
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    They have to respect you. They respect you when they know you mean what you say. They know you mean what you say when your behavior follows through with what you mean/say

    Couple that with kindness, care, patience, being reasonable about what rules are rules, and knowing how to educate them instead of just telling them
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    Quote Originally Posted by boost View Post

    Off topic: Ong, I challenge you to find one reputable study that shows positive correlation between marijuana smoking and lung cancer.
    If you smoke it with tobacco, and most do, you're fucked regardless.
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    Soo...

    We can probably scrap this thread. She called me this afternoon after she left a doctor appointment crying saying that the baby is 1/2 the size it should be, her cervix is getting really weak and there's pretty much 0 chance she'll carry full term. And if she does, there's a good chance her uterine wall(?) will tear and kill her anyways...

    Was fun to think about being a dad while it lasted I suppose...

    I need a drink.
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    holy fuck dude

    condolences and congratulations i suppose...
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    What a Shit situation. Go see her so she's not alone. I imagine its worse for her than it is for you. I'm sorry man.
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    wait ... so if they told her the baby is half the size it should be , thats implying that she went for her 20 week or (6-8 week) ultrasound where they check skeletal developement and can sex the baby. If she wanted you to be the dad , to try for a relationship , did she even ask you if you wanted to go with her for the scan and actually get to see your kid for the first time?

    Or had you asked her why it took 3 months to tell you , or she's realized that you mean it about the DNA test. Ask her to see the scan pics ,cos lets face it everyone gets the pics from the scan and see if theres anything on it showing stage of pregnancy, some do some don't, seems much more likely she shagged someone at christmas and got pregnant to that and shes been working her way back trying to find someone to take her and the baby on.

    Don't getthe uterine tear comment at all. Googling it it seems to be asociated with previous ceasarians,big babies or multiple pregnancies in the past all of which will weaken the uterine wall.In an 18 year old without most of the causal effects why would she be likely to develope it . Sounds more like she's realized that she isn't gonna suck you in and an 11 month pregnancy is gonna take some explaining.
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    :/

    as crazy of a conspiracy as keiths post may sound, he could be on to something here.

    i'd be very wary of what comes out of an 18 year old pregnant girls mouth

    so def ask to see those scan pics... good luck.
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    lol this thread just hung a hard left and all signs point to awesometown, population soon to be dranger.
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    All my friends who smoke weed mainly smoke joints with tobacco. I had one healthy friend who only used a vaporiser.
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    I mean... You guys can think its great that I'm not going to end up having the kid, but I'd already wrapped my head around the idea and I'm hurting pretty bad right now.

    I'm inclined to believe her about everything she's told me to date. I'm not 100% sure on the uterine wall thing Keith, I think that's what she told me. I have the flu and she told me like idk 10-12 hours ago while I was asleep.

    It's probably for the best that its not going to happen, I'm not ready but man... I don't even know how to describe the emotions I'm feeling right now. I asked her if she wanted me to come up to see her (I have the flu) she said no. She's got 2 cousins and a friend staying with her tonight, think she'll do fine w/o me.

    Obviously going to talk to her tomorrow and in the coming days to discuss the options (pretty sure there's only one: evacuate it) but you never know.

    sigh.

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