Not to sound like a jerk but if 2 hands (not even 100bb deep) have been the deciding factor on whether or not your positive this month, than you should be looking at some other spots/leaks. Also in hand 1, unless villain is a complete nit that will stack off on basically any flop if you hit a set, than you should fold to his 3bet. Judging by him 3betting TT I doubt this is the case.

Hand 2 looks really good. Please don't take my advice the wrong way. I know your feeling and it sucks!