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This is kind of hard to talk about but I'll just come out and say it.
I'm really, really, really good at sex, but I don't particularly enjoy it.
Thoughts?
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Hey knucklehead! Bonk!
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This is serious business guys.
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Originally Posted by Ripptyde
I only have 2 simple rules when I am coaching a new student.
Rule # 1: don't ask questions
Rule # 2: don't ask questions
I have no interest in discussing strategy with a protege'. Your job is to remain quiet and listen. I have a very systematic approach that I will share with the right candidate and I promise that I will turn you into a force of nature and show you elements of the game of poker that you never knew existed.
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Have you tried sex with women?
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Smithers, use the amnesia ray.
You mean the revolver, sir?
Precisely.
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Have you tried sex with women?
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I've never had any sort of sexual contact with a male, but have had more female sexual partners than I care to mention.
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Originally Posted by Ripptyde
I only have 2 simple rules when I am coaching a new student.
Rule # 1: don't ask questions
Rule # 2: don't ask questions
I have no interest in discussing strategy with a protege'. Your job is to remain quiet and listen. I have a very systematic approach that I will share with the right candidate and I promise that I will turn you into a force of nature and show you elements of the game of poker that you never knew existed.
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i dont think i'd really enjoy having sex either if it was just with fat chicks
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04-23-2008, 01:40 PM
Post subject: Re: Serious Sex Problem
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I'm really, really, really good at sex, but I don't particularly enjoy it.
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thats a weird quote. how can u be good, when ur sex is bad?
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04-23-2008, 01:44 PM
Post subject: Re: Serious Sex Problem
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i dont think i'd really enjoy having sex either if it was just with fat chicks
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I've only had sex with 2 fat chicks in my lifetime. One has been previously featured on this forum, and I had a somewhat justifiable reason for that one. The other was your mom.
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I'm really, really, really good at sex, but I don't particularly enjoy it.
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thats a weird quote. how can u be good, when ur sex is bad? |
My sex isn't bad, I just don't enjoy sex.
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I only have 2 simple rules when I am coaching a new student.
Rule # 1: don't ask questions
Rule # 2: don't ask questions
I have no interest in discussing strategy with a protege'. Your job is to remain quiet and listen. I have a very systematic approach that I will share with the right candidate and I promise that I will turn you into a force of nature and show you elements of the game of poker that you never knew existed.
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So on what basis can you claim that you are good at sex? Everybody thinks they are "good" at sex...
If you don't enjoy something, stop doing it?
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04-23-2008, 01:56 PM
Post subject: Re: Serious Sex Problem
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I'm really, really, really good at sex, but I don't particularly enjoy it.
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I have the exact opposite problem...
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So you click their picture and then you get their money?
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So on what basis can you claim that you are good at sex? Everybody thinks they are "good" at sex...
If you don't enjoy something, stop doing it?
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Everybody doesn't think they're good at sex. You clearly don't. Also, I have a sufficient sample size.
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I'm really, really, really good at sex, but I don't particularly enjoy it.
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I have the exact opposite problem... |
Yes, but like with poker, it can be corrected with sufficient study and practice.
So does anyone actually want to talk about the question?
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I only have 2 simple rules when I am coaching a new student.
Rule # 1: don't ask questions
Rule # 2: don't ask questions
I have no interest in discussing strategy with a protege'. Your job is to remain quiet and listen. I have a very systematic approach that I will share with the right candidate and I promise that I will turn you into a force of nature and show you elements of the game of poker that you never knew existed.
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Lost your mojo eh? There can be a lot of reasons for this. See a doctor.
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No, because you're lying. Unless your brain is malfunctioning. Like heroine, orgasm releases certain neurotransmitter chemicals such as serotonin (and dopamine?) which are involved in your brain's reward center. Orgasming makes your brain want to have more orgasms. These are the same mechanisms that can lead to people becoming addicted to masturbation. So if your having an orgasm, you're enjoying sex.
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Smithers, use the amnesia ray.
You mean the revolver, sir?
Precisely.
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Lost your mojo eh? There can be a lot of reasons for this. See a doctor.
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I've considered seeing a therapist over this, but to be honest up until recently I probably haven't been able to afford it.
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I only have 2 simple rules when I am coaching a new student.
Rule # 1: don't ask questions
Rule # 2: don't ask questions
I have no interest in discussing strategy with a protege'. Your job is to remain quiet and listen. I have a very systematic approach that I will share with the right candidate and I promise that I will turn you into a force of nature and show you elements of the game of poker that you never knew existed.
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No, because you're lying. Unless your brain is malfunctioning. Like heroine, orgasm releases certain neurotransmitter chemicals such as serotonin (and dopamine?) which are involved in your brain's reward center. Orgasming makes your brain want to have more orgasms. So if your having an orgasm, you're enjoying sex.
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Yes, I'm obviously lying. Thanks for the oh-so-obvious answer to my problem Dr. Rilla, sex specialist.
On a more serious note, I'm currently 23 years old. When I was 19 I discovered that a long-term girlfriend of mine had cheated on me and shortly thereafter I went on a sort of "binge" I guess you could call it, fucking every decent-looking (and a few, unfortunately, not-so-decent-looking girls) I could get my hands on. This went on for almost a year and a half. I'm not really sure why I did it or whatever, but I thought this would be kind of relevant since I have been feeling this way about sex ever since.
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I only have 2 simple rules when I am coaching a new student.
Rule # 1: don't ask questions
Rule # 2: don't ask questions
I have no interest in discussing strategy with a protege'. Your job is to remain quiet and listen. I have a very systematic approach that I will share with the right candidate and I promise that I will turn you into a force of nature and show you elements of the game of poker that you never knew existed.
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If you want, I can pass the question on to my professor to get a better answer. However, based on the tone of your original post and the tone of your last post as well as the subject material itself I find it highly likely that you are, indeed, lying.
Try heroin.
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Smithers, use the amnesia ray.
You mean the revolver, sir?
Precisely.
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If you want, I can pass the question on to my professor to get a better answer. However, based on the tone of your original post and the tone of your last post as well as the subject material itself I find it highly likely that you are, indeed, lying.
Try heroin.
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Yes because spoon + posting + sex = lying.
But feel free to pass along whatever you'd like to whoever you'd like. Maybe they can give some constructive feedback.
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I only have 2 simple rules when I am coaching a new student.
Rule # 1: don't ask questions
Rule # 2: don't ask questions
I have no interest in discussing strategy with a protege'. Your job is to remain quiet and listen. I have a very systematic approach that I will share with the right candidate and I promise that I will turn you into a force of nature and show you elements of the game of poker that you never knew existed.
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Yes, because spoon + posting + sex = lying.
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Smithers, use the amnesia ray.
You mean the revolver, sir?
Precisely.
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serious sex problems come from taking sex too seriously
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Yes, because spoon + posting + sex = lying.
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If you're done with your personal attacks, we can continue.
I've been thinking of other information that might be relevant. From the time I was 17 until 21 or 22 I was also masturbating to pornography at least once a day, sometimes 3-4. These days I only masturbate maybe once every 3-4 days. Also, I'm having sex about 3-4 times a week with my live-in girlfriend of about a year.
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I only have 2 simple rules when I am coaching a new student.
Rule # 1: don't ask questions
Rule # 2: don't ask questions
I have no interest in discussing strategy with a protege'. Your job is to remain quiet and listen. I have a very systematic approach that I will share with the right candidate and I promise that I will turn you into a force of nature and show you elements of the game of poker that you never knew existed.
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On a more serious note, I'm currently 23 years old. When I was 19 I discovered that a long-term girlfriend of mine had cheated on me and shortly thereafter I went on a sort of "binge" I guess you could call it, fucking every decent-looking (and a few, unfortunately, not-so-decent-looking girls) I could get my hands on. This went on for almost a year and a half. I'm not really sure why I did it or whatever, but I thought this would be kind of relevant since I have been feeling this way about sex ever since.
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went there, did this after I discovered my ex was fucking around. pretty sure it was a self-esteem thing...
nevertheless, had tons of fun as a result and discovered my ex wasn't that good at sex in comparison to what was out there
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serious sex problems come from taking sex too seriously
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The biggest problem I have with not enjoying sex is that it's become a bit of a chore instead of something I want to be spending my time doing.
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I only have 2 simple rules when I am coaching a new student.
Rule # 1: don't ask questions
Rule # 2: don't ask questions
I have no interest in discussing strategy with a protege'. Your job is to remain quiet and listen. I have a very systematic approach that I will share with the right candidate and I promise that I will turn you into a force of nature and show you elements of the game of poker that you never knew existed.
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thinking of other information that might be relevant. From the time I was 17 until 21 or 22 I was also masturbating to pornography at least once a day, sometimes 3-4. These days I only masturbate maybe once every 3-4 days. Also, I'm having sex about 3-4 times a week with my live-in girlfriend of about a year.
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wasn't somebody looking for a thesis a little while ago?
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The biggest problem I have with not enjoying sex is that it's become a bit of a chore instead of something I want to be spending my time doing. |
quality>quantity
supposedly, if you put a jelly bean into a jar every time you have sex at the beginning of a relationship then, once the jar is full, , take a jelly bean out every time you have sex as the relationship goes on, you will never empty the jar. probably not true, but sex with the same partner can definitely get boring after a while.
get books, try new shit, etc., and don't have sex because you feel like you 'have' to. a once-a-week 2 hour fuckfest is way better than a 10-min wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am every night.
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you are not 23, you are actually 43
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maybe your gf isnt very good?
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I don't understand the point in this entire thread?
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whatever, I'm sorry for being a pissy asshole once again today. I dunno what it is but I'm just really pissed off 24/7 these days.
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Smithers, use the amnesia ray.
You mean the revolver, sir?
Precisely.
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try eating a banana
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haha it was the "happy food" thing that started my whole mood swing for the worst. I was having a really shitty day on saturday so I ate a banana, some chocolate and some milk. Got into the party mood and before long had pissed off an entire sorority and woke up in the hospital.
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Smithers, use the amnesia ray.
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Precisely.
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get books, try new shit, etc., and don't have sex because you feel like you 'have' to. a once-a-week 2 hour fuckfest is way better than a 10-min wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am every night.
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I know what you're saying, but I can assure you that there's plenty of variety outside of multiple-partners. What kind of sucks is that really the only enjoyment I get out of sex anymore is from fucking new girls -- something my girlfriend, rather understandably, isn't down with.
Random thought that I need to write down before I forget to mention it: communication with my girlfriend is great and not a concern whatsoever.
I try to get as much quality out of it as I can. We typically have two types of sex. The first usually happens before she goes to work, and typically involves her getting off 2-3 times and I do not get off (my choice), and lasts about 15-20 minutes. The second usually happens in the evenings after she's gotten home from work, and lasts anywhere from 45 minutes to 3 hours with both of us generally having multiple (3+) orgasms.
I also don't think that attraction is an issue.
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I only have 2 simple rules when I am coaching a new student.
Rule # 1: don't ask questions
Rule # 2: don't ask questions
I have no interest in discussing strategy with a protege'. Your job is to remain quiet and listen. I have a very systematic approach that I will share with the right candidate and I promise that I will turn you into a force of nature and show you elements of the game of poker that you never knew existed.
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you are not 23, you are actually 43
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maybe your gf isnt very good?
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The only problem with this assumption, which I've considered myself, is that I've had this same problem with more than a dozen partners, so I don't think that's really it.
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I don't understand the point in this entire thread?
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That's because you're a virgin. <3
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whatever, I'm sorry for being a pissy asshole once again today. I dunno what it is but I'm just really pissed off 24/7 these days.
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Np, you know we love you.
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I only have 2 simple rules when I am coaching a new student.
Rule # 1: don't ask questions
Rule # 2: don't ask questions
I have no interest in discussing strategy with a protege'. Your job is to remain quiet and listen. I have a very systematic approach that I will share with the right candidate and I promise that I will turn you into a force of nature and show you elements of the game of poker that you never knew existed.
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I have almost the same problem...
I enjoy better wanking off to porn than having sex with a woman, nomather how hot she is. It just feels better. No joke
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I have almost the same problem...
I enjoy better wanking off to porn than having sex with a woman, nomather how hot she is. It just feels better. No joke
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I know a few guys who are similar.
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I only have 2 simple rules when I am coaching a new student.
Rule # 1: don't ask questions
Rule # 2: don't ask questions
I have no interest in discussing strategy with a protege'. Your job is to remain quiet and listen. I have a very systematic approach that I will share with the right candidate and I promise that I will turn you into a force of nature and show you elements of the game of poker that you never knew existed.
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Spoon, it's kinda funny that you ask a question like this on a poker forum, then get indignant when people give you crap about it. Asking this question here and expecting a serious, useful answer makes about as much sense as me calling Dr. Ruth to ask if I should reraise my pocket tens preflop.
All that said, I'll put on my amateur shrink hat and offer some ideas.
In my experience, sex is much better when you're in love with the partner. Are you in love with your gf? (Not suggesting you're not, just asking.) I think sex becomes "a bit of a chore" is because you no longer have any emotional investment in it. Sex with a new person, first time, is always exciting, but it loses its thrill eventually unless there's an emotional aspect. Lust is short-term only.
I'll take it a step further, and you might not like it. But if I were in your position I would examine my life trajectory. You mention your live-in gf, but is this relationship going anywhere? (Again, I may be way off base and don't wish to offend.) What is the next step?
You have commented frequently on the need in poker to strive for the next level, to improve through careful study of the game. Are you moving the relationship in the same way? It's like if you start at microstakes and a small bankroll: the game is exciting. But as you become a winner and begin to build your roll, you want to move up to the next level as your skill improves. If you are killing the game and are massively overrolled, but just continue grinding at low levels (insert sex joke here) where you started, of course the game is going to get tedious.
I am old enough to be your dad (didn't want to mention that until the end of this post), and one major change I've seen in the current generation is the tendency towards multiple sex partners or live-in arrangements where there is no emotional life investment. I'm not being moralistic here. I just think that in the long-term, people are wasting there time (the prime of their lives no less) playing around instead of getting their lives in order. Maybe (just maybe, I'm not saying this is you for sure) the thing you need to do is make a serious commitment: get married to this girl and start a family... or get off the pot. If she's not the one for you, maybe the answer is to find the one who is.
I think once you have all these things in order, the questions you have about sex will begin to answer themselves. Again, sorry if I am way off base or overly personal. Just some thoughts.
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What kind of sucks is that really the only enjoyment I get out of sex anymore is from fucking new girls -- something my girlfriend, rather understandably, isn't down with.
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What kind of sucks is that really the only enjoyment I get out of sex anymore is from fucking new girls -- something my girlfriend, rather understandably, isn't down with.
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What kind of sucks is that really the only enjoyment I get out of sex anymore is from fucking new girls -- something my girlfriend, rather understandably, isn't down with.
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Yes, I did.
My question was "Thoughts?"
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I only have 2 simple rules when I am coaching a new student.
Rule # 1: don't ask questions
Rule # 2: don't ask questions
I have no interest in discussing strategy with a protege'. Your job is to remain quiet and listen. I have a very systematic approach that I will share with the right candidate and I promise that I will turn you into a force of nature and show you elements of the game of poker that you never knew existed.
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what about mixing up some hj/bj/rj/whatever instead of the 3 hour sex session sometimes? me and my gf have sex a lot, and both enjoy it, but i think we have have only gone 3 hours a couple times... i think i might hate sex if i did it for that long too. 15-20 mins is fine for me. also an occasional handjob or blowjob and some cunnilings keeps things interesting.
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what about mixing up some hj/bj/rj/whatever instead of the 3 hour sex session sometimes? me and my gf have sex a lot, and both enjoy it, but i think we have have only gone 3 hours a couple times... i think i might hate sex if i did it for that long too. 15-20 mins is fine for me. also an occasional handjob or blowjob and some cunnilings keeps things interesting.
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Uhh... I thought it was understood that by "3 hour session" I don't mean "3 hours of intercourse".
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Warpe
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I get more thrill from the chase than the kill. I think a lot/most guys are hard-wired that way.
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Originally Posted by givememyleg
what about mixing up some hj/bj/rj/whatever instead of the 3 hour sex session sometimes? me and my gf have sex a lot, and both enjoy it, but i think we have have only gone 3 hours a couple times... i think i might hate sex if i did it for that long too. 15-20 mins is fine for me. also an occasional handjob or blowjob and some cunnilings keeps things interesting.
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Uhh... I thought it was understood that by "3 hour session" I don't mean "3 hours of intercourse". |
even so, damn man that's a long time
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Originally Posted by Warpe
I get more thrill from the chase than the kill. I think a lot/most guys are hard-wired that way.
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True.
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Originally Posted by Ripptyde
I only have 2 simple rules when I am coaching a new student.
Rule # 1: don't ask questions
Rule # 2: don't ask questions
I have no interest in discussing strategy with a protege'. Your job is to remain quiet and listen. I have a very systematic approach that I will share with the right candidate and I promise that I will turn you into a force of nature and show you elements of the game of poker that you never knew existed.
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couple of thoughts.
maybe a 10 minute wham bam thank you maam is what you need if you are thinking that sex is a chore. and it would start to feel like one if it always took hours.
also, you may want to try not having sex of any kind for a bit, even a couple of weeks. If I had sex twice a day for that long I would probably start to not enjoy it as much either. there's something to be said for denying yourself pleasure in the short term.
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i would ask for advice on an internet forum
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I think we should have a contest and see who gets to bang spoons GF
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some people just arent into "vanilla" sex. If your GF isnt cool with that, then shes not the right one for you. Its not like this is going to go away.
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