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Originally Posted by Massimo
Originally Posted by boost
max, there is a "cool factor" to it, however it does not make you cool. Just like wearing only name brands does not give you style. Also any "cool points" you gain from smoking are really not that useful. I dont think its easier to make friends due to smoking, and it doesnt make it easier to get laid imo, so how exactly does it make you cooler?
Idk, i just think the act of smoking something is/looks cool. I don't smoke cigs but that's just how i feel about it. I also think that especially when you're younger it's appealing to girls, and although i think we're all old enough to the point where that doesn't matter anymore,many people have that memory met that girl outside, smoked a cig with her, and then railed the shit out of her. So in the back of your mind or subconsciously you're thinking that they do help you out in that aspect.
Anyways, I think Schip brings up a good point about the meeting people thing. Addiction to smoking cigarette is much more than just nicotine. People get addicted to just the act of blowing smoke and the social aspect of going outside and having a smoke. There's just so many things.
I definitely agree with you on the first part, young chicks are stupid and def go for the "bad boy" persona which normally includes smoking. But like you said, chicks for the most part dont stay (that) dumb once they grow up a bit. If anything I think once you start to get to your mid twenties being a non smoke is often better for you when it comes to girls. For the same reason that liked the smokes in highschool they realize that the "bad boy" is generally not the best boyfreind/more so they start looking for guys with, dare I say, personality!
Again on the second paragraph I agree that the addiction goes way beyond the nicotine. The physical addiction actually goes by pretty fast, something like 3 days I believe. And that is why I said you need to break these positive bonds you have associated with smoking. And even go a step further by making yourself pity people who still smoke. "look at that kid, he thinks hes being cool, he thinks people will accept him more readily because hes smoking with them, but hes just fucking over his health." Clearly you arent going to express these opinions outloud otherwise you wont have any friends anymore. It kind of becomes a game, you are the underdog and everyone knows its fun to root for the underdog. You against all the smokers. Thats what worked for me.
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