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03-03-2007, 06:31 PM
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..hates me now. I'm pretty sure I'm bragging about still having an opinion over a year into a relationship.. but she started talking to random guys that she met on a myspace-like site and I told her I didn't like it and whatever, so now I'm the dickhead, blah blah blah..
I'm pretty stoked. Discuss.
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Are you in HS still?
If it's a worthwhile relationship you should trust her enough to talk with people on-line. If you don't then the problem is deeper.
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Start talking to random girls online
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ya seriuosly join one of those internet dating sites and be like thats right bich i can go hang out with "sexy susan" if i wanted to, shes a 43 year old devorced female with 3 kids... that card usually works 100% of the time.
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THaC, if you want an offboard chat PM me.
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www.myspace.com
search option country : columbia , women 18-29 . That outta do it.
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www.myspace.com
search option country : columbia , women 18-29 . That outta do it.
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Are you in HS still?
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03-03-2007, 10:41 PM
Post subject: Re: I told my girlfriend what's up, and she..
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I think you should apologize to her for being irrationally jealous.
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No, like "talking" .. not "hi how's ur day" like "i miss u i love u" etc
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If she's telling some other guy, "Imiss u, I love U"
then its time to start banging her friends.
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3 3 3 I'm only half evil.
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Yeah I thought my gf was flirting with all these guys from work that she text messaged all day. So a new girl started working where I worked and I started to text message her. My gf started to get really jealous and knew what it felt like when I was talking to this other girl all day long so she instantly quit talking to her other guys and now we are closer than ever. The only problem is getting her to realize nothing happened between me and the other girl but I eventually quit the job and I stopped talking to the girl.
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Yea that's been my plan all day.. like random text messages from guys while we're laying down and shit.. just really annoying even though I know she's not cheating, at least not physically.
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Yea that's been my plan all day.. like random text messages from guys while we're laying down and shit.. just really annoying even though I know she's not cheating, at least not physically.
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dude you guys are like 14, cheating should be std
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Ya srsly.. PokerStars needs to check my ID
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what your doing by acting like this is looking like an insecure, punk ass, overcontrolling, (did i say insecure) little girl. If you keep this up you will quickly find that you will dig the hole deeper and deeper.
Revenge is your only option, or bail if you feel like it. By doing this with other guys she is opening the door for you to do the same.
Apologize, say how much of a jerk you are - then go shopping with one of your girl friends or better yet one of your girlfriends friends. Say you wanted someone to go to the mall with.
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Revenge is your only option, if you're 14
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double homicide sound good?
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Uhhhhh...
Sit down and talk to her about it. Do not act defensive. Explain that it bothers you.
Do not seek revenge, just explain your feelings. Ask her to clarify what her relationships are with those guys, since you seem to be worried.
Then maybe she will see your side of it and you guys will get along.
Because all of these ideas in this thread currently suck ass. Do not do them.
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Option A: take the shit, get laid
Option B: don't take the shit, don't get laid
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Option A: take the shit on a glass table, get laid
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not the glass bottom boat!
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not the glass bottom boat!
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Lol, is this what every thread has to come to?
Seriously, ya.. talk to her man. See how she feels about these guys.. tell her it bothers you. I think if she wanted to cheat on you, she would do it secretly and not make it so obvious.
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wait, shes really telling these guys she loves them and misses them and all? Kick that bitch to the curb. I dont see how theres any other line to take here.
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wait, shes really telling these guys she loves them and misses them and all? Kick that bitch to the curb. I dont see how theres any other line to take here.
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Some girls are retardly like that dude. They will literally tell every guy they love them and miss them, it's like they're desentized to the word. I know one of my friends would do that shit all the time to me, and i mean i know she didnt mean it in a real hard sense so i kind of would say it back. I just pretty much told my gf that was what was up and she was fine with it. She knew it wasn't a real "love u" or "miss u."
On a note, you should have told her you didn't like that she was saying it (maybe u did) and to tell her to stop. I mean, if at that point she's saying ur just being a dick then tell her to go fuck herself. I think she should be able top understand where ur coming from if u present it right.
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Option A: take the shit, get laid
Option B: don't take the shit, don't get laid
Option C: take the shit, get laid by her and anyone else you can lay
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i'd go with option C
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I think we need pics, preferably naked, of your gf for more accurate advice.
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Option A: take the shit, get laid
Option B: don't take the shit, don't get laid
Option C: take the shit, get laid by her and anyone else you can lay
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I did Option C during highschool with one of my girlfriends sophomore year that was playing the same game with the upperclassmen (sending text messages to other guys, talking to them on the phone all the time, etc.).
Doesn't end pretty, but I have no regrets about it. Just make sure you use protection, highschool is an STD playground. Had a couple close encounters during that period in my life.
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I think we need pics, preferably naked, of your gf for more accurate advice.
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Think supermodel. Except not as tall.
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punch her in the chestplate
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I think we need pics, preferably naked, of your gf for more accurate advice.
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Think supermodel. Except not as tall. |
Yes, I totally believe you. No one lies on the internet.
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I think we need pics, preferably naked, of your gf for more accurate advice.
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Think supermodel. Except not at all. |
Your answer of course was early in the thread when someone suggested doing something to make her jealous. It's really not that shallow however. It can also be described as letting her know you are in demand, if she's not demanding you. You know, kinda what she's doing to you.
If you want fire in a relationship, then you should expect to engage in subtle psychological foreplay. The trap most people fall into is automatically casting jealousy into something negative and wrong. Jealousy can taste good, if cooked right. Only extreme forms of jealousy are unhealthy.
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It's not what's inside that counts. Have you seen what's inside?
Internal organs. And they're getting uglier by the minute.
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Rondavu is right except that it takes EXTREME skill to be able to do it right that way. Usually only girls can manage that much skill. Do it wrong and you screw it up for ever. Still, give it a whirl. Good luck 
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I did Option C during highschool with one of my girlfriends sophomore year that was playing the same game with the upperclassmen (sending text messages to other guys, talking to them on the phone all the time, etc.).
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i feel old. we still wrote notes on paper when i was in HS.
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If you want fire in a relationship, then you should expect to engage in subtle psychological foreplay. The trap most people fall into is automatically casting jealousy into something negative and wrong. Jealousy can taste good, if cooked right. Only extreme forms of jealousy are unhealthy.
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For psychological warfare against women in order to get laid multiple times and become a player, look no farther than the lay guide. Turns relationships into a game. Most pertinent to the subject, check the "Handling the girls" section for ways to keep women (or a single woman...) interested in you and faithful to you. It's a good, classic chauvinistic male read that exploits a woman's interest and hunger for attention as well as her sense of competition.
That said, I'm in a committed, faithful HEALTHY relationship now so I don't play that game any more.
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If you want fire in a relationship, then you should expect to engage in subtle psychological foreplay. The trap most people fall into is automatically casting jealousy into something negative and wrong. Jealousy can taste good, if cooked right. Only extreme forms of jealousy are unhealthy.
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For psychological warfare against women in order to get laid multiple times and become a player, look no farther than the lay guide. Turns relationships into a game. Most pertinent to the subject, check the "Handling the girls" section for ways to keep women (or a single woman...) interested in you and faithful to you. It's a good, classic chauvinistic male read that exploits a woman's interest and hunger for attention as well as her sense of competition.
That said, I'm in a committed, faithful HEALTHY relationship now so I don't play that game any more. |
Healthy is subjective. If you don't do things to spark each other, in a few years you'll find yourself fat and asleep in an easychair with a TV guide over your junk.
You're talking about games. I'm talking about keeping your partner on their toes. You can be faithful, healthy, and in demand. It's possible.
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It's not what's inside that counts. Have you seen what's inside?
Internal organs. And they're getting uglier by the minute.
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Healthy is subjective. If you don't do things to spark each other, in a few years you'll find yourself fat and asleep in an easychair with a TV guide over your junk.
You're talking about games. I'm talking about keeping your partner on their toes. You can be faithful, healthy, and in demand. It's possible.
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lol, I'm still in college amigo. I am in no way headed that path.
Keeping your partner on their toes IS a game. If you haven't read the lay guide, there's actually a short article entitled "Suggest competition - keep her on her toes".
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I remember I dated a girl a while back that loved to play games like this shit and tried to "test" me. Well a few months after that ended I met my current gf of 4+ years and wonder why the hell I went through all of that. It's weird because it actually is true that you can find someone that isn't a complete psychopath, is 100% faithful and honest and never tries to make you jealous!
If she's pulling this crap it just seems stupid to me to "try to make her jealous back" or something. If you guys are in a serious relationship just talk about it, that's the only healthy way to solve anything. If you don't have good communication you will never have a good relationship.
This of course only applies if you're serious about the relationship.
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Keeping your partner on their toes IS a game. If you haven't read the lay guide, there's actually a short article entitled " Suggest competition - keep her on her toes". |
Look man, what you're not seeing is that I agree with you for the most part. I don't like head games as much as the next decent person. You have the wrong idea about my attitude towards relationships.
I understand you can be in a very comfortable relationship, where there's no bullshit. I also understand you have to be careful about getting too comfortable, because that's when the sexual attraction in your relationship dies. A lot of my relationships have been sexually based, but I also understand the importance of other things. I never lose track of that first aspect however, because it's harder to retrieve when it falls by the wayside.
Lol at the pimp guide references. I'm not a stone cold hustler bro.
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It's not what's inside that counts. Have you seen what's inside?
Internal organs. And they're getting uglier by the minute.
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Xioustic plz change avatar to Rick Ross, with an 'Everyday I'm Hustling' caption.
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This is a great site.^^^^^^^^^^^^
also check out www.sosuave.com
similar site
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Look man, what you're not seeing is that I agree with you for the most part.
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There appears to be a misunderstanding. I do realize you agree with me for the most part, I was just trying to further correlate the concepts of the lay guide to your approach on relationships to keep things steamy. For example:
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Originally Posted by Ross Jefferies @ The Lay Guide - Show a willingness to walk away
You see, after years of experience and study, I've come to the conclusion that a woman can only experience real passion for if on some level she believes she could do something to lose you! Understand that when you show this willingness to walk away, in any area of your life, it conveys the message that you are the prize to be pursued, that you are the person of value, and they had better take advantage of the opportunity. This is an attitude that will move you forward in any area that's challenging you. By way of contrast, if you show a non-stop, forever and ever devotion to her, and put up with her crap and ambivalence, then where is that tension of knowing she could lose you? Answer: nowhere! And that's why you get nowhere when you put up with this kind of stuff! If you've seen an initially hot relationship grow ice-cold, this is one big reason!!!
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This is the basis of THaC's problem.
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Xioustic plz change avatar to Rick Ross, with an 'Everyday I'm Hustling' caption.
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Like Bill Cosby, I'm not a big fan of the rap musik. lol
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This is a great site.^^^^^^^^^^^^
also check out www.sosuave.com
similar site |
Both sites that I read like my bibles during two consecutive summer breaks in highschool. Fun times! Seduction is REALLY fun stuff. I used to have a compilation of these sites that I would check for updates daily. Just like I visit askmen.com daily.
Also, I'm going to hell because of those summers.
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Originally Posted by Ross Jefferies @ The Lay Guide - Show a willingness to walk away
You see, after years of experience and study, I've come to the conclusion that a woman can only experience real passion for if on some level she believes she could do something to lose you! Understand that when you show this willingness to walk away, in any area of your life, it conveys the message that you are the prize to be pursued, that you are the person of value, and they had better take advantage of the opportunity. This is an attitude that will move you forward in any area that's challenging you. By way of contrast, if you show a non-stop, forever and ever devotion to her, and put up with her crap and ambivalence, then where is that tension of knowing she could lose you? Answer: nowhere! And that's why you get nowhere when you put up with this kind of stuff! If you've seen an initially hot relationship grow ice-cold, this is one big reason!!!
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