Straight
Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Las Vegas
Posts: 117
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Shysti,
I've read the whole thread, and I think I agree with biond. You've got lots of reasons why you're not digging the relationship anymore, and it sounds like you don't even like her at this point. Maybe you almost wish she was cheating on you so you'd have an easy out.
Be a man, tell her you're not happy and haven't been for a while. Be straight up with her on how you feel and make it known that you aren't going to do it anymore. The child makes it complicated, but if you two argue all the time and don't have a "Happy Home", then how good is that for the kid? Wouldn't it be better to have 2 separate happy homes?
The argument you described about the day off for the wedding. That sounds pretty typical of an argument about something nominal stemming from deeper underlying issues. It's not about the day, or what day someone said or whatever. It's about how you communicate and feel about each other. If the respect ain't there, it turns into a blame game instead of the two of you working together to resolve an issue.
You've said yourself that you've got other things in your life that are more important, and she just adds drama. IMHO, if you love her and care about her feelings, you'll respond empathetically and sympathetically to the things that bother her. (And if your'e like any other man, you'll try to fix it!  ) If you don't give a shit, you label it as 'drama' and go back to your SnG. That should tell ya somethin' right?
Sounds to me that the cards are dealt and the action is on you.
-Kes
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