Cheating Girlfriend?

Just wanted to know if any of you have had the cheating girlfriend who claims she loves you until you either caught her, or found out she was cheating?

Did you have any clues, behavior patterns? I am suspecting but not accusing at this point, we have had turmoil since like the 4th month out of this almost 2 yr relationship. I don't believe myself to have trust issues, but I have been cheated on before and all the signs are kinda pointing to yes, even though I don't have concreate proof.

My ex-common-law of 10yrs had an affair. Warning signs: changes in usual routine, out shopping/out for drinks with girlfriend/out period more than usual, more attention to make-up/grooming than usual, showering when she got home. I confronted her and she denied it but I finally discovered it for sure when I came across an unfinished e-mail as I was shutting down her computer in our home office during a thunderstorm. She ended up marrying the guy, poor fellow.

Good riddance.

Without going into it all, I am just using logic to come to my conclusion. I am the independent person in the relationship, while she is the more needy/clingy person.

She needs attention and lately I haven't given it to her because it's usually tied to drama, the only complicated matter is our child so I hang on until I can find a proper solution. But standing from a logical standpoint, here is this girl who wants my attention and for me to be in this relationshp but she isn't getting it, so she doesn't trust me!

When I know personally I am not out doing anything behind her back, nor have I ever. I am more concerned with college, my daugther, getting better at poker and working out and getting in better shape. How she thinks another woman fits into that I don't know.

However, I look at her situation she is the one who is more focused on having someone who will give her the attention she requires than the rest of her life, so who's to say she isn't out seeking that attention she desperately needs?

That's where the lack of trust starts...

Hm... idk I agree with the signs that warpe pointed out because I saw it with my ex... I hope it works out mine didnt end to well when I found out...

I ended up walking in on her and one of my best buddies hooking up on my bed after I left my class early. Ended up getting a good shot in on his jaw before she got inbetween us, needless to say I dont speak to any of them anymore...

:/

relationship was only 5 months old

I think its fine to be curious and be open to clues that shes cheating on you. However its a problem when you let it consume you. And by doing this you let it ruin the relationship.

hah.. Yah truthfully one of the worst things about cheating now adays is STDs. Youre exposing your gf/bf to the possibility of an STD, and tahts just so fucked up. I mean then theres the whole being dishonest to a person that trusts and cares about you.

But seriously.. I think if my gf cheated on me, and I found out, Id just drop her, and never talk to her again. But if she cheated on me, and gave me some incureable shit, Id shoot her.

Had a girlfriend in college cheat on me a little over two years into it. Was a long-distance relationship thing, about 2 hours away, but we had lived close by previously, so wasn't like long-distance the whole time. I had no clue, and she didn't tell me until like 6 months later.

just put it in her butt. She will end all affairs

If you can't spot the sucker at the table then the sucker is you.

like today she calls me up while I am at work and is talking to me and asks if I really love her, because she really needs to know.

Im like why so you can decide whether or not to go with the guy you are interested in? lol she says no because of what happened this weekend.

I went to this party (rave like) and I got hella drunk and of course at some point during the night my shirt came off (from dancing and being hot) so I came home with it inside out and all day saturday I am accused of cheating wtf! lol

Literally in my face all day sat tryin to start a fight, so I am like get out of my face I am in the middle of a Sng...she didn't stop, I tell her it's over, sick of this bs blah blah blah.

So she says she asked if I really love her because we keep breakin up and some other reason I kinda tuned her out after that

Sounds like she still wants to be with you.

Yep that was one of the requirements after our last break up, she begged me back and I said only if we go to counseling. Which I have yet to see her even start looking for a counsler, so I'll have to do it.

You're sort of right here but your timing is off. She is not cheating on you yet but where she wouldn't cheat on you before, there is now that possibility. If some snakey fag comes along and plays his cards right he will score. At this point you control the hand and can make things go whichever way you want. You can fix it ot leave it, and you know the results of each action.

she sounds kinda nutty... But I think you should sit her down and just make it clear that you are not cheating. If she cant hear your reason for having your shirt inside out, and trust you, then you guys just cnat be together. She obvioulsy is not listening to reason, and when soemone cant listen to reason, how can you, as a logicl reasonable person be with them?

oh.. and why do you go to raves? thats pretty homosexual. Do you twirl glow sticks and have glow in the dark pacifiers?

Give me her name, number and addresss. I'll find out if she's cheating or not guarenteed.

haha, glad to be of service gala, and good to see you around again. Its been a while, is everything gravy on the Gala-train?

Don't knock raves... They're not my thing, but the guys I know that did the rave thing got laid like rock stars.

You can't be with the girl JUST because of your daughter, right? I mean, you got together before the kid popped out. If you can find a reason besides your daughter to be with her, then you gotta talk to her straight up. Shit, be her emotional tampon for a lil while!

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